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Claude's Candy Corner: Giant Bomb Life and Death

 

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I wanted to write something for you the Giant Bomb faithful and my fellow video game loving brethren. My wife passed away today after having a stroke early Monday. Why am I doing this you ask? Because Giant Bomb became my place to be when my wife's health took a turn for the worse. At the same time Jeff was fired from Gamespot, I had to quit my full time job to concentrate on my wife and become her caregiver. Jeff's blog and later Giant Bomb gave me that safe haven for fun and video games. I was 43 years old at the time and now I'm sitting at 47. I've played a lot of video games in my life starting with the great Pong. Well, Pong was kind of simple, but you know what I mean. 
 
My wife had a chronic disease called Lupus and with that many illnesses manifested themselves. She was diagnosed when she was 18 years old, and we started dating when she was 24. I was 23. Even with all the health issues, I saw her become a mental health therapist and she was still practicing part-time at the time of her death. June of this year would have marked twenty years of marriage. I loved her dearly and always will.
 
Being that Giant Bomb is just a click away on the internet, it's safe to say I've read all the well wishes and good thoughts coming my way. Being a member of Giant Bomb has meant a lot to me. I've been up and down emotionally and sometimes I can take out my frustrations here good and bad. Sometimes I feel great creativity in writing my strange and obtuse blogs. Other times I try to help and be a good guy. And then there's the forum fun, odd polls and maybe just a little bit of trollism hidden in there. I've met many people here that I consider friends and would enjoy sitting and chatting about life and video games.
 
As for the community, don't let anyone tell you you're just the internet. I'm a firm believer in speaking your mind and letting your opinion be heard. I believe in Giant Bomb and I believe in you. So let your freak flag fly Giant Bomb. I ain't going no where. Don't ban me, bro!
 
Thank you all for the good thoughts. And remember that the internet is not such a bad place, we're just going through growing pains because our world is getting smaller. 
 
Claude
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You have got a giant heart Claude. All I can say is that I am grateful to know you even if it is only through these forums.

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Claude, I'm so sadden to hear the terrible news. I wish for you and your family the best. I'm glad you at least have the strength to report back to us. Remember, the GiantBomb community will be here waiting for you!

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Oh dang it ....  Claude my condolences and best wishes

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Stay strong.

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I'm so sorry for your loss, Claude. :(

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Inpirational as always, Claude. I hope Giantbomb and its community can help you get through these throubling times.

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Sorry to hear about your wife. Best of luck to you! 
 
Don't go anywhere Claude, we'll watch your back man!  

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Oh dear, I'm so sorry for your loss. Stay weird Claude. <3

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Wow. I'm sorry to hear that Claude. Best wishes to you man.

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Its not nearly the same as losing your wife, but I just lost one of my good friends to a car accident on tuesday, so I can at least understand a fragment of what you're dealing with at the moment.

Well wishes and all of my condolences good sir.

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@the_OFFICIAL_jAPanese_teaBAG said:
That second paragraph made me tear up a bit....  But even in a post like this, you managed to make me laugh.  Im really sorry this happened to you....  
Made you laugh.  Ha, it worked. My night is finally slowing down. I'm using this time to escape and collect my thoughts.
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It's amazing that you can write something so beautiful from something like this. Just goes to show what you mean to us around these parts.

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I know you've already gotten a lot of these, but best of wishes, mate. Couldn't be sorrier about the death... It's a damn shame..

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As your original nephew here on Giantbomb, this is damn tough to read. There's really not much I can say, but I hope you can get through this. I watched my girlfriend's sister lose her husband and it tore her up, you could really see her decline, but she began seeking help and talking to others, and eventually she came to terms with the situation.

The difference is you had to watch your wife's health decline over time, she had lost her husand in a helicopter crash, but losing someone you love so dearly is all the same. Uncle Claude were all here for you buddy, I wish you and your family the best.

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That second paragraph made me tear up a bit....  But even in a post like this, you managed to make me laugh.  Im really sorry this happened to you....  

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Christ... what now? Actually, that end bit was slightly uplifting. You're gonna be OK, bud.

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I wanted to write something for you the Giant Bomb faithful and my fellow video game loving brethren. My wife passed away today after having a stroke early Monday. Why am I doing this you ask? Because Giant Bomb became my place to be when my wife's health took a turn for the worse. At the same time Jeff was fired from Gamespot, I had to quit my full time job to concentrate on my wife and become her caregiver. Jeff's blog and later Giant Bomb gave me that safe haven for fun and video games. I was 43 years old at the time and now I'm sitting at 47. I've played a lot of video games in my life starting with the great Pong. Well, Pong was kind of simple, but you know what I mean. 
 
My wife had a chronic disease called Lupus and with that many illnesses manifested themselves. She was diagnosed when she was 18 years old, and we started dating when she was 24. I was 23. Even with all the health issues, I saw her become a mental health therapist and she was still practicing part-time at the time of her death. June of this year would have marked twenty years of marriage. I loved her dearly and always will.
 
Being that Giant Bomb is just a click away on the internet, it's safe to say I've read all the well wishes and good thoughts coming my way. Being a member of Giant Bomb has meant a lot to me. I've been up and down emotionally and sometimes I can take out my frustrations here good and bad. Sometimes I feel great creativity in writing my strange and obtuse blogs. Other times I try to help and be a good guy. And then there's the forum fun, odd polls and maybe just a little bit of trollism hidden in there. I've met many people here that I consider friends and would enjoy sitting and chatting about life and video games.
 
As for the community, don't let anyone tell you you're just the internet. I'm a firm believer in speaking your mind and letting your opinion be heard. I believe in Giant Bomb and I believe in you. So let your freak flag fly Giant Bomb. I ain't going no where. Don't ban me, bro!
 
Thank you all for the good thoughts. And remember that the internet is not such a bad place, we're just going through growing pains because our world is getting smaller. 
 
Claude