Silock

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http://www.giantbomb.com/forums/off-topic/31/awkward-situation-as-much-advice-as-possible-please/550203/

Couple of weeks I posted a thread about how I was in a tough spot in

deciding what I should do with the dilemma I was facing. If you do not

wish to read the whole thread the tl’dr version is basicily that

theres this girl whos nearly 40, we like each other know nothing can

happen and all I want is sex with her, oh and she also has an 8 year

old!

So I thought I would post my conclusion because it was your guys

advice that I had taken on board and figured I would share where

abouts it has landed me. So I spoke to her about the situation and

said that all I want out of this is just a bit fun but I don’t wanna

end up hurting her, she replied with that “I know its just fun, you

said before that all you wanted with someone is sex”, so basically we

are “Friends with benefits”. Having that conversation was not as tough

as I thought it was at all, infact quite hte opposite it was the

easiest thing in the world and only lasted a couple of minutes before

we started making out.

Now I spend my lunch breaks instead of eating a sandwich watching TV,

we either head round hers or if we are feeling incredibly classy, go

to a car park and “do stuff” lol. So thanks for your advice guys,

landed me the jackpot lol

Side note: I think its important to say that I am using protection,

don’t want you guys worrying a bout me haha : P

Thanks again : )

Sorry about wall of text, this site isn'tsnt phone friendly lol

So just got back from pictures, it went OK. Her kid was cute, just sat quietly watching the film, meanwhile me and her was slyly touching each other through the duration. We get to the car she invites me round, I said as tactfully as I could that I don't think its a good idea with Sean there, so I went home.

Sent her a text couple minutes ago stating that I would of loved to come round but don't feel comfortable with Sean being there.

I guess i'll do the talk with her on monday.

It helps knowing that when comparing my situation to alot of other peoples suck as the scenario where someone has killed someone and is on the run, or someone who is in the middle of a drug smuggle right now and is at the airport going through security.. my problem is pretty tame in comparison. I just keep thinking this to myself lol helps me feel better!

I'll do the talk face to face with her at work on Monday.

Both sides of the arguements have good points.

You have the break it up crowed who are right because it could end up upsetting her in the long run and she might not beable to recover so quickly.

The keep up crowed are right because it is just a bit of fun and as long as i'm careful and don't knock this bird up, it is just a bit of fun.

Its tough to decide who to side with, I don't like hurting people but on the same token, I love fucking people.

@InsidiousTuna said:

@Silock: You're 23! Fucking ENJOY LIFE! GET IT! You don't have to pursue a relationship to have fun! I highly doubt SHE wants a relationship. Keep it out of the office, and have fun! All you people saying "break it off NOW" are real Debbie Downers.

I'm hearing ya, but once a kid gets involved its no longer 'just for fun''. She has a life, she clearly must be looking for a partner.

You guys are right, I just gotta talk to her about this.... shit, I'm gonna hate this.

@konig_kei said:

@Silock

@drGiggless: She has an 8 year old son! Going pictures with her and him later on : / Won't be doing anything though, don't want her son knowing theres something going on.

Bad idea bro. Going to the movies with her and her son, she wants something more.

Yet, if nothing else shes still a great friend and I would be going cinema with her if this wasn't going on..

I hear what you guys are saying, but this is gonna be so tough to do. Its gonna kill her.. I fucking hate upsetting people!