So I guess life is shit.

Mmm well it seems a few people do follow my on twitter and here. Anyways 
 
 
Wednesday my mother who works with special needs kids got socked in the stomach by a 19 year old 200 pound boy. We took her to the hospital where she was told she had muscle contusions.  *im not allowed to get mad cause its some special need kid who is not aware of what he does* 
 
Friday she blacked out for a few seconds. And today. About 3 pm she returned to the hospital with 
 
Stomach pain. Soreness. Blurry/spotty vision. Dizzyness and very very low blood pressure. We find out she has lost 3% of her hemoglobin and enough blood to drain the color from her face and hands. We also find out she has internal most likely in her stomach. And to top it off she has something strange going on in her cervix which they think might be cancer.  
 
After many tests including a blood transfusion and saline being pumped into her stomach and pulled out to see if it had blood in it (Which it did. Older blood) She is told she will be admitted and stay the night. We arrived at 3 pm and I left a bit after 10 pm.  
 
I sit now writing this blog to say that the world sucks and we all get a nice sucky piece of sucky pie at one time or another. Lucky for us she will get FULL workers comp from where she works and they will cover the bill. Of course if this means she will have to stop working my wage of 9.20 an hour with about 20 hours a week will have to support us till she is better.  
 
 
Again Sucky word. Sucky pie. Im not that hungry right now.  
 
 
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I want to add ALL the computers at the hospital seem to run on XP. Not sure why I noticed that... 
 
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This morning my mom is gonna have a camera put down her throat to look in her stomach. 
 
 
Also when this all happened the kid who hit her does NOT have a personal aid to watch him. And there was 4 people in the area that saw what happened and did nothing when my mother called for help.  
 
 
UPDATE! 
 
 
Turns out mother had a ulcer which started to bleed.  
 
so this is what the doctor says. 
 
The punch caused her to come in. Where they gave her meds that bothered the ulcers. Which then caused it to bleed. 
 
 
And the way I see it. If they kid never hit her. She would not need the meds and there would still have been no bleeding. 

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Posted by HitmanAgent47

Honestly what  kind of mental illness could you possibly have to let you get away from punching someone in the gut besides retardation? Honestly someone should get an aluminum baseball bat and play baseball with his head. I'm only saying, see how he likes it.

Posted by The_Laughing_Man

Update added  
 
 
 Turns out mother had a ulcer which started to bleed.  
 
so this is what the doctor says. 
 
The punch caused her to come in. Where they gave her meds that bothered the ulcers. Which then caused it to bleed. 
 
 
And the way I see it. If they kid never hit her. She would not need the meds and there would still have been no bleeding.     

Posted by NekuSakuraba
@HitmanAgent47 said:
"

Honestly what  kind of mental illness could you possibly have to let you get away from punching someone in the gut besides retardation? Honestly someone should get an aluminum baseball bat and play baseball with his head. I'm only saying, see how he likes it.

"
Anger issues?
Posted by arab_prince
@The_Laughing_Man: But doesn't that mean you guys didn't know about the ulcer? 
Posted by The_Laughing_Man
@arab_prince said:
" @The_Laughing_Man: But doesn't that mean you guys didn't know about the ulcer?  "
The point is that she was fine BEFORE the punch. No pain no dizzyness nothing. Then all of the sudden she was in pain and all that after the punch. Be it the meds or the punch.
Posted by rhodric
@The_Laughing_Man said:
" Update added     Turns out mother had a ulcer which started to bleed.   so this is what the doctor says.  The punch caused her to come in. Where they gave her meds that bothered the ulcers. Which then caused it to bleed.   And the way I see it. If they kid never hit her. She would not need the meds and there would still have been no bleeding.      "
at least it's not cancer then. no need to freak out anymore. ulcer, if left untreated can lead to stomache cancer. and now that she knows, she can have it treated before it becomes a better problem. i guess that's one positive side to it.
Posted by MordeaniisChaos
@The_Laughing_Man: I hope things go ok with your mother. My grandmother (who also happens to be my legal guardian) has been out of work for several months and in and out of the hospital because of an illness that the doctors still can't figure out exactly what it is, so I know how frustrating it can be to hear things like the fact that the medicine she got caused things to get worse in different ways. Just remember that things can always get better, there is no reason not to have hope.   
And I'm sure that there are plenty of people here who would be more than happy to help out. If you ever need to talk to someone or anything, I'm sure most members here, and all of your friends and loved ones, will be glad to talk, so do talk if you feel the need to. I wish you and your family the best, and stay confident that everything will be fixed up in the best possible way and that things will be back to relative normal soon. 
 Hang in there man, it'll all get better.
 
Also, remember that this kid doesn't think the way a normal kid does. I know it's hard, but putting your hard feelings toward him won't help anything, and will just make you feel tense and stressed to a greater degree. Focus on the positive, on your mom getting better, and being there for her.
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Posted by The_Laughing_Man
@rhodric said:
" @The_Laughing_Man said:
" Update added     Turns out mother had a ulcer which started to bleed.   so this is what the doctor says.  The punch caused her to come in. Where they gave her meds that bothered the ulcers. Which then caused it to bleed.   And the way I see it. If they kid never hit her. She would not need the meds and there would still have been no bleeding.      "
at least it's not cancer then. no need to freak out anymore. ulcer, if left untreated can lead to stomache cancer. and now that she knows, she can have it treated before it becomes a better problem. i guess that's one positive side to it.  
Never said that. We are still unsure of what is effecting her cervix. 
Posted by NekuSakuraba
@The_Laughing_Man: Do you know what that 19 year old had?
Posted by The_Laughing_Man
@NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man: Do you know what that 19 year old had? "
Its a grab bag of messed up kids. I have no clue. Nor do I care. 
Posted by HitmanAgent47
@NekuSakuraba: being angry isn't a mental illness btw. You still know right from wrong if it was just anger and you can sue him for it.
Posted by NekuSakuraba
@HitmanAgent47 said:
" @NekuSakuraba: being angry isn't a mental illness btw. You still know right from wrong if it was just anger and you can sue him for it. "
No, what I mean is that many mental illnesses could lead to people being overly aggressive and angry. 
 
@The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man: Do you know what that 19 year old had? "
Its a grab bag of messed up kids. I have no clue. Nor do I care.  "
So it is not a mental illness and is just a bunch of kids who have had a tough time?
Posted by The_Laughing_Man
@NekuSakuraba said:
" @HitmanAgent47 said:
" @NekuSakuraba: being angry isn't a mental illness btw. You still know right from wrong if it was just anger and you can sue him for it. "
No, what I mean is that many mental illnesses could lead to people being overly aggressive and angry. 
 
@The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man: Do you know what that 19 year old had? "
Its a grab bag of messed up kids. I have no clue. Nor do I care.  "
So it is not a mental illness and is just a bunch of kids who have had a tough time? "
Its mental illness. Did you not read the intro? 
Posted by NekuSakuraba
@The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @HitmanAgent47 said:
" @NekuSakuraba: being angry isn't a mental illness btw. You still know right from wrong if it was just anger and you can sue him for it. "
No, what I mean is that many mental illnesses could lead to people being overly aggressive and angry. 
 
@The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man: Do you know what that 19 year old had? "
Its a grab bag of messed up kids. I have no clue. Nor do I care.  "
So it is not a mental illness and is just a bunch of kids who have had a tough time? "
Its mental illness. Did you not read the intro?  "
Yeah I did but I figured that when you said messed up kids you meant messed up as in how life has effected them? 
 
Anyway, if you find out how bad it is or what mental illness it is you should do something about it for sure. You seem to be very upset with what happened with I can see totally understand why so maybe you should do something about it? also the place your mother works at should also be dealt with for not doing anything in time. 
 
Now just don't go killing people, deal with it in a civilized matter.
Posted by The_Laughing_Man
@NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @HitmanAgent47 said:
" @NekuSakuraba: being angry isn't a mental illness btw. You still know right from wrong if it was just anger and you can sue him for it. "
No, what I mean is that many mental illnesses could lead to people being overly aggressive and angry. 
 
@The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man: Do you know what that 19 year old had? "
Its a grab bag of messed up kids. I have no clue. Nor do I care.  "
So it is not a mental illness and is just a bunch of kids who have had a tough time? "
Its mental illness. Did you not read the intro?  "
Yeah I did but I figured that when you said messed up kids you meant messed up as in how life has effected them?  Anyway, if you find out how bad it is or what mental illness it is you should do something about it for sure. You seem to be very upset with what happened with I can see totally understand why so maybe you should do something about it? also the place your mother works at should also be dealt with for not doing anything in time.  Now just don't go killing people, deal with it in a civilized matter. "
Me do something about it? Like what? I can do nothing legal. It did not happen to me. My mother has to do it. Ive been at my mothers side non stop when I am awake. What do you suggest I do? huh?
Posted by NekuSakuraba
@The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @HitmanAgent47 said:
" @NekuSakuraba: being angry isn't a mental illness btw. You still know right from wrong if it was just anger and you can sue him for it. "
No, what I mean is that many mental illnesses could lead to people being overly aggressive and angry. 
 
@The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man: Do you know what that 19 year old had? "
Its a grab bag of messed up kids. I have no clue. Nor do I care.  "
So it is not a mental illness and is just a bunch of kids who have had a tough time? "
Its mental illness. Did you not read the intro?  "
Yeah I did but I figured that when you said messed up kids you meant messed up as in how life has effected them?  Anyway, if you find out how bad it is or what mental illness it is you should do something about it for sure. You seem to be very upset with what happened with I can see totally understand why so maybe you should do something about it? also the place your mother works at should also be dealt with for not doing anything in time.  Now just don't go killing people, deal with it in a civilized matter. "
Me do something about it? Like what? I can do nothing legal. It did not happen to me. My mother has to do it. Ive been at my mothers side non stop when I am awake. What do you suggest I do? huh? "
Wow, calm down. I am in no way saying you aren't doing enough but I can see you are pretty pissed off about it so I thought that maybe talking to the kid or her work place might calm you down. And when everything gets better then maybe something legally should be done about it.
Posted by The_Laughing_Man
@NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @HitmanAgent47 said:
" @NekuSakuraba: being angry isn't a mental illness btw. You still know right from wrong if it was just anger and you can sue him for it. "
No, what I mean is that many mental illnesses could lead to people being overly aggressive and angry. 
 
@The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man: Do you know what that 19 year old had? "
Its a grab bag of messed up kids. I have no clue. Nor do I care.  "
So it is not a mental illness and is just a bunch of kids who have had a tough time? "
Its mental illness. Did you not read the intro?  "
Yeah I did but I figured that when you said messed up kids you meant messed up as in how life has effected them?  Anyway, if you find out how bad it is or what mental illness it is you should do something about it for sure. You seem to be very upset with what happened with I can see totally understand why so maybe you should do something about it? also the place your mother works at should also be dealt with for not doing anything in time.  Now just don't go killing people, deal with it in a civilized matter. "
Me do something about it? Like what? I can do nothing legal. It did not happen to me. My mother has to do it. Ive been at my mothers side non stop when I am awake. What do you suggest I do? huh? "
Wow, calm down. I am in no way saying you aren't doing enough but I can see you are pretty pissed off about it so I thought that maybe talking to the kid or her work place might calm you down. And when everything gets better then maybe something legally should be done about it. "
Go read my first post. The kids are special needs. He is unaware of what he does. 
Posted by rhodric
@The_Laughing_Man: bummer dude. hope she doesn't have cancer.
Posted by NekuSakuraba
@The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @HitmanAgent47 said:
" @NekuSakuraba: being angry isn't a mental illness btw. You still know right from wrong if it was just anger and you can sue him for it. "
No, what I mean is that many mental illnesses could lead to people being overly aggressive and angry. 
 
@The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man: Do you know what that 19 year old had? "
Its a grab bag of messed up kids. I have no clue. Nor do I care.  "
So it is not a mental illness and is just a bunch of kids who have had a tough time? "
Its mental illness. Did you not read the intro?  "
Yeah I did but I figured that when you said messed up kids you meant messed up as in how life has effected them?  Anyway, if you find out how bad it is or what mental illness it is you should do something about it for sure. You seem to be very upset with what happened with I can see totally understand why so maybe you should do something about it? also the place your mother works at should also be dealt with for not doing anything in time.  Now just don't go killing people, deal with it in a civilized matter. "
Me do something about it? Like what? I can do nothing legal. It did not happen to me. My mother has to do it. Ive been at my mothers side non stop when I am awake. What do you suggest I do? huh? "
Wow, calm down. I am in no way saying you aren't doing enough but I can see you are pretty pissed off about it so I thought that maybe talking to the kid or her work place might calm you down. And when everything gets better then maybe something legally should be done about it. "
Go read my first post. The kids are special needs. He is unaware of what he does.  "
Oh I see, how about the workers who saw it but didn't do anything? Maybe you should talk to them about implementing a better safety system.
Posted by The_Laughing_Man
@NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @HitmanAgent47 said:
" @NekuSakuraba: being angry isn't a mental illness btw. You still know right from wrong if it was just anger and you can sue him for it. "
No, what I mean is that many mental illnesses could lead to people being overly aggressive and angry. 
 
@The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man: Do you know what that 19 year old had? "
Its a grab bag of messed up kids. I have no clue. Nor do I care.  "
So it is not a mental illness and is just a bunch of kids who have had a tough time? "
Its mental illness. Did you not read the intro?  "
Yeah I did but I figured that when you said messed up kids you meant messed up as in how life has effected them?  Anyway, if you find out how bad it is or what mental illness it is you should do something about it for sure. You seem to be very upset with what happened with I can see totally understand why so maybe you should do something about it? also the place your mother works at should also be dealt with for not doing anything in time.  Now just don't go killing people, deal with it in a civilized matter. "
Me do something about it? Like what? I can do nothing legal. It did not happen to me. My mother has to do it. Ive been at my mothers side non stop when I am awake. What do you suggest I do? huh? "
Wow, calm down. I am in no way saying you aren't doing enough but I can see you are pretty pissed off about it so I thought that maybe talking to the kid or her work place might calm you down. And when everything gets better then maybe something legally should be done about it. "
Go read my first post. The kids are special needs. He is unaware of what he does.  "
Oh I see, how about the workers who saw it but didn't do anything? Maybe you should talk to them about implementing a better safety system. "
No offense. But stop. You know nothing about how this stupid school works. They are not ALLOWED to restrain the kids. So if one flips out your supposed to try and calm him down. Your not allowed to take them down. Tazer them or anything. No restraint at all. 
 
And trying to tell me to try and fix this is a crap thing to say. If I had my way I would give the kid a punch to his own stomach and see how he likes it. 
Posted by arab_prince
@The_Laughing_Man: Calm down bud he is just trying to help out. You can't expect him to know how everything works. 
Posted by NoK

Man where do you live? If your mom isn't going to let you go fuck that kid up then I'll drive out there and cut his nuts off and shove them down his throat for you, fuck that mother fucker, I don't care what kind of problems he has, I would kill that piece of shit for touching my mom.

Posted by NekuSakuraba
@The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @HitmanAgent47 said:
" @NekuSakuraba: being angry isn't a mental illness btw. You still know right from wrong if it was just anger and you can sue him for it. "
No, what I mean is that many mental illnesses could lead to people being overly aggressive and angry. 
 
@The_Laughing_Man said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:
" @The_Laughing_Man: Do you know what that 19 year old had? "
Its a grab bag of messed up kids. I have no clue. Nor do I care.  "
So it is not a mental illness and is just a bunch of kids who have had a tough time? "
Its mental illness. Did you not read the intro?  "
Yeah I did but I figured that when you said messed up kids you meant messed up as in how life has effected them?  Anyway, if you find out how bad it is or what mental illness it is you should do something about it for sure. You seem to be very upset with what happened with I can see totally understand why so maybe you should do something about it? also the place your mother works at should also be dealt with for not doing anything in time.  Now just don't go killing people, deal with it in a civilized matter. "
Me do something about it? Like what? I can do nothing legal. It did not happen to me. My mother has to do it. Ive been at my mothers side non stop when I am awake. What do you suggest I do? huh? "
Wow, calm down. I am in no way saying you aren't doing enough but I can see you are pretty pissed off about it so I thought that maybe talking to the kid or her work place might calm you down. And when everything gets better then maybe something legally should be done about it. "
Go read my first post. The kids are special needs. He is unaware of what he does.  "
Oh I see, how about the workers who saw it but didn't do anything? Maybe you should talk to them about implementing a better safety system. "
No offense. But stop. You know nothing about how this stupid school works. They are not ALLOWED to restrain the kids. So if one flips out your supposed to try and calm him down. Your not allowed to take them down. Tazer them or anything. No restraint at all.  And trying to tell me to try and fix this is a crap thing to say. If I had my way I would give the kid a punch to his own stomach and see how he likes it.  "
Sorry, I'll stop posting. 
 
I wish you and your family the best of luck.
Posted by iam3green

dang that sucks man. i hope that she gets better duder. dang, strong kid if she is in a hospital.

Posted by teh_destroyer

Sorry to hear about your misfortune, my mom got in a car accident one time,(not her fault), and granted she only came out with a scratched up face and lip lash but i was scared of what that could bring. I hope she gets better, maybe you need to show this guy your little friend...........

Posted by GioVANNI
@NoK:  I kind of feel the same way.  Violence is violence, even if he doesn't have the necessary brain capacity to understand why it's bad.
Posted by SeriouslyNow
@teh_destroyer:  Lip Lash?
 
  
Posted by Davvyk

Seriously i hope everything gets better. People whos job it is to help people less fortunate than ourselves should be looked after to the highest degree. Just be there for your mum, its all she will want right now.

Posted by sodiumCyclops

I can honestly say that the OP (Nick) is one of the coolest guys I know.
 
He has been helping us over at www.bonusexp.com for a long time now and not only is he awesome for that, he's just a good friend too! 

 
Our hearts go out to you and your Mom, Nick. Wish her the best from us and see you on the next podcast!

Posted by Gerhabio

That's cool you got a lot of support on the forums, whenever I post about real life problems people are just douchebags.

Posted by Lifestrike

If you can learn to forgive that boy, then you will have won a great battle for all of us.

Posted by harvey_the_pooka
@NoK:
" Man where do you live? If your mom isn't going to let you go fuck that kid up then I'll drive out there and cut his nuts off and shove them down his throat for you, fuck that mother fucker, I don't care what kind of problems he has, I would kill that piece of shit for touching my mom. "
 
You are an asshole. Obviously you´ve never dealt with anybody who is special needs before...