I'm sorry, but I get really frustrated when I see this sort of stuff. This is a hobby. Gaming is just a pass time.
More men are into gaming. So obviously it's more often going to be designed around men. Just like how beauty products are more often designed to cater to women.
Men are not portrayed any less stereotypical in videogame than female characters and EVERYONE is insulted and slandered in online multiplayer games regardless of race, gender or creed.
No one deserves any special recognition on their hardships over a HOBBY.