@Brendan said:
@SethPhotopoulos said:
@Brendan: Well when you say "You know what everyone, he was always lame." You imply that you are the only correct one and that everyone else is wrong. Its snobbish is all.
You response is nothing more than a product of the new "faux" internet maturity, where you think that every post needs to come with six different disclaimers and "in my opinion's" because you can't grasp that everything I say I clearly my own opinion. I imply nothing of what you are saying. I say simply what I personally believe, because obviously.
Funny thing about implications is that they're implied e.i. not always obvious even to the one making them.
It is easier for most people to accept anothers opinion if they are being humble and appear sympathetic, can we agree on this? When you say stuff, like what you did, the way you said them e.i. without disclaimers (and with snark) you're gonna hurt some people's feelings, you may think that they're stupid for being this way, I dunno, but it's the way it works (as evidenced by the responses you've already been given).
I believe this to be the main reason why other people are respectful when speaking/typing. They want to appear sympathetic through not implying that something as trivial as their opinion, something they understand will differ from person to person, is more important than another's. So when you don't show this consideration you come off as...well, unsympathetic, and someone who won't let their opinion remain as just that.
Hopefully this makes sense to you, and if it doesn't, I suppose you're gonna keep doing what you've been doing. Just be sure that people will not change either so they're gonna keep fighting you over it, curse them all you want.
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