So a friend of mine sent me a link to this video.
Frankly my personal feelings are that I fail to see the logic in the way he responded. Yes his daughter humiliated her parents. Yes she has no appreciation towards them, but reacting the same way as she did just shows that you're just as immature as you child. I am a string believer that kids learn behavior patterns from the parents and frankly I am not at all surprised his daughter reacted the way she did. She probably saw the very same behavior from her dad, who through this vid is showing signs of abusive behavior. I get that the dad wanted to teach his child a lesson by taking to the internet in the same manner as her but going as far as shooting the laptop won't teach her anything. In fact it would only show her that it's ok to overreact.
Imho I think he would have done better leaving the matter privet and within the family. A better lesson would have been to either sell the damn thing, or better yet make her get a job and buy back from him and start paying her way around the house to make her realize and appreciate what her parents do for her. Instead of defusing the matter and acting like an adult the dad just went ahead and put further strain on an already strained relationship.
What are your thoughts?
UPDATE: So the dad responded on his facebook page "Truthfully...the social attention has helped her and I both deal with it. We had our discussion about it after she returned home from school. We set the ground rules for her punishment, and then I let her read some of the comments on Facebook with me at my computer. At first it was upsetting. Then as we read it became less so, eventually funny to both of us."
So in short he could have achieved what he wanted to without resorting to extream measures.
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