Girlfriend broke up with me?Any advice?

Hi Giantbomb community, ive always depended on you through the good times now i need some help throught the bad times.
If any of you duders can gimme any wisdom on how to face this thing.
 
The story is ive been with this girl for 3 years. We loved each other, i at least thought she was the one.
The last 2 months shes been cold and then out of the blue ( i admit i missed a bunch of signs ) she tells me shes no longer in love, needs space and needs to be alone.
My whole world is rocked..
 
 Any of you experienced this?How did your eact?Did you get her back?Should i just accept it and move on?

" @soli said:

"Should i just accept it and move on? "

yup "

may be she got tired of some of the things you do . The key in a relationship is "awareness" .
Also, and I don't mean you , stupid people should never hook up .

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I have always handled things that really upset me or depress me by playing video games. When I learned my grandmother passed away the first thing I did was go and play through Resident Evil in one sitting. I would sort of tear up every now and then while playing, but I tried to just focus on the game and completing it as fast as possible. When I lost my job I sat down and started leveling a new character in WoW. I would never play anything that let me run into a room and start mowing guys down, nothing I could take out anger on. I would keep my mind busy doing something I enjoy while working through emotions. I guess I use that as a way to stagger the way I take it all in and it allows me to sort of start coping with it right up front.  By doing something I would do any other day I guess I am telling myself that life goes on and that soon everything will be fine again.
 
Find something to keep your mind occupied so you don't get to down on yourself. And don't drink any alcohol, you'll just start feeling worse and probable end up doing something stupid. Like calling her while you are wasted and just making an ass of yourself. I've done that one on multiple occasions and it never plays out well. 
 
Also, girls come and go, but Batman is forever.

" @soli said:

"Should i just accept it and move on? "

yup "

" and I could care less about my exes. "

I recently had a fallout with my girlfriend of four years. We had a house and I was putting the ungrateful whore through college. Tirms out she was cheating on me the entire time and instead of staying around her and feeling like ass, I moved 700 km away and went to university.

Best thing i ever did for myself.

" @drag said:

" @soli said:

"Should i just accept it and move on? "

yup "

word.  Or more bluntly, find some hotter ass, profit. "

Owned.

" Owned. "

You will die alone.

" @JerichoBlyth said:

" Owned. "

Prick... 
 
Did she take your fridge? When mine walked out, she emptied the food out of my fridge and took it... 
 
she took my goddamned fridge. 
 
who takes the fridge?  
 
Anyway, 
 
 
It's up to you how you react and certain people can do certain things, but what I did was just focused on myself for a bit, I needed to get myself in a routine, something where I could get into autonomous mode for awhile, listen to music that calmed me, because I was pissed off more than anytthing, and I started to exercise more frequently, going for a run and exhausting yourself works to make yourself not notice anything.  
 
Then, I went and got lei'd.  
 
     But that's me, everyone makes their own path, just know that this will probably be one of many break ups you'll have, and to remember that there are plenty of women out there,   unless you live in dubo, then...you're fucked. "

" @Red12b said:

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Haha took the fridge, sounds like a fat girl, except... why did she leave the food ;) "

" You will die alone. "

I don't get why forum dwellers are so quick to say"DROP HER INSTANTLY". If you're going to dump someone at the slightest bump of the road, why do you even bother with long-term relationships? Societal pressure?
 
OP, if you're serious about her, I'd at least try and find out the why's and how's. Its not nice when relationships end in such a unsatisfactory way. 
 
Uhh...bit of an important notice: don't be a creep about it and if she doesn't want to talk, don't keep pressing.(don't know why you're asking giantbomb for relationship advice, btw)
 
@Meowayne said:

" You will die alone. "

Enjoy some free time, play some more video games, then in a year or so, find a nice night elf priestess and settle down.

" I don't get why forum dwellers are so quick to say"DROP HER INSTANTLY". If you're going to dump someone at the slightest bump of the road, why do you even bother with long-term relationships? "

" @Red12b: I thought my ex was bad to just want the Iron back... "

" Enjoy some free time, play some more video games, then in a year or so, find a nice night elf priestess and settle down. "

" @mutha3 said:

" I don't get why forum dwellers are so quick to say"DROP HER INSTANTLY". If you're going to dump someone at the slightest bump of the road, why do you even bother with long-term relationships? "

Just real quick: I think getting dumped equates to a little more than a "slight bump in the road", typically. Might just be me, though. "

Shit in her letterbox.

Put money in her mailbox. That will help. You should also send her flowers or chocolates every day for at least a month and attempt to call her two or more times an evening. If she doesn't respond send approximately 15 text messages in a 5 minute window. Stuff like "I still luv u u r the 1 i will kill ur family jk lol'. This is how you will win her back.

I had been together with my ex for almost a year when she broke up with me, it was okey except for the fact that my best friend died 2 days later and my parents got divorced the following month... That was a pretty bad month, i also turned 20 in the middle of it all

" @BombKareshi said:

" Just real quick: I think getting dumped equates to a little more than a "slight bump in the road", typically. Might just be me, though. "

I guess. But that was meant more as a general statement,anime avatar guy.  I mean, seriously, I don't think I've ever seen a relationship advice thread on GB where, like,70% of the posts aren't  "DUMP HER INSTANTLY". "

find another

" @soli said:

"Should i just accept it and move on? "

yup "

No one can give you good advice without knowing the bulk of your relationship, and personalities of both parties. A 3 year old relationship has too many variables. Just cut your losses and move on. Find some girl to bang, then you're going to enter what I like to call, "post-good relationship--relationship". This is were you will enter a relationship with some girl who is pretty similar to the one you had, or completely different. However, that will only last a few months. You will probably have a single gap for a couple of months, and will then find a better lady. 

"Should i just accept it and move on? "

Look out the window.

Do you see chicks?

End of advice.

Accept it and move on and don't think about it. If she's not in love with you anymore, nothing will change that. It's unfortunate, and it hurts. It really hurts. It's probably the worst thing ever to stop loving someone who stopped loving you. But you don't really have a choice- life doesn't care about keeping things simple.  
 
So just move on and find the girl that's right for you. Won't be easy, but it'll be worth it.

Stay off the internet. Stay away from her. Throw yourself in to what you love. There is no way you can do anything quick to fix it. Just do things you enjoy and over time things will work out.

" You will die alone. "

poop in her front yard

" Accept it and move on and don't think about it. If she's not in love with you anymore, nothing will change that. It's unfortunate, and it hurts. It really hurts. It's probably the worst thing ever to stop loving someone who stopped loving you. But you don't really have a choice- life doesn't care about keeping things simple.   So just move on and find the girl that's right for you. Won't be easy, but it'll be worth it. "

go kill yourself
 
 
what do you want us to say? that everything will be alright? Ok here we go....
 
 
Everything will be alright, there's plenty of fish in the sea.
 
 
Now that a bunch of people you don't know on the internet have lied to you, do you feel better? 
 
move the fuck on and go fuck some other bitch, it's not like your mom died or some shit, if something that important happened you wouldn't be on here posting.