Regarding the sister's apparent change of opinion on video games, that sounds understandable to me.
It sounds cliche, but having a child changes a person's life and perspectives. For years, I thought that when I had a kid I'd be showing him video games and trading controllers back and forth, etc. I had a great deal of fun playing games with my nephew, and I naturally assumed I'd do the same with my own child.
My son is two now and I have no interest in showing him any of that. I'm delighted that he has little to no interest in TV, movies, or "screens" in general. I think it's fantastic that he thinks phones are only for talking to people. I love to hear him say he wants to go outside or read a book, and I'm thrilled at the opportunity to show him new things out in the world.
As others have pointed out, video games have changed. I certainly still enjoy them, but a) I don't have nearly as much free time as I used to have, and b) a larger and larger percentage of games are actively pushing me away with "games as a service" nonsense and/or microtransactions. I want no part of that stuff, and I certainly don't want my child to be marketed to and/or monetized by a flavor-of-the-week, free-to-play piece of garbage software.
All that said, I'm not delusional. WHEN the day comes that my son wants to play games, I'll be happy and excited to play with him. We'll probably start with some classics on a Raspberry Pi and move up slowly to appreciate the improved complexity. He'll probably have an allotted amount of screen time per day, and a new console for Christmas wouldn't be out of the question. I don't think I'll ever be a "no games in the house" person, but I can certainly understand and appreciate the position of somebody who is.
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