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Tackling life after high school.

I don't know how to do it. Everyone keeps asking me, what are you gonna do? Where you gonna go? I have no idea. I don't know what to tell them. I wish I could just live life and become some kind of roaming layabout and discover my dream while backpacking across some distant land. However it seems that is not a choice I can make.  I know it's probably not correct to say that I am not an interesting person but I just don't feel like one. I haven't explored space, mastered the art of taming beasts, or learned to juggle. Nothing about my life is extraordinary. I'm a suburban kid, in a modest home, with decent grades. What's there to sell? No one could have lived a more mundane existence. 
 
Some would argue that there are big choices before deciding what you'll do after high school. From what I've seen so far, I would disagree. Life so far has been a very linear track. Go to school, meet people, drive around, and generally fuck about. Now I have some significant ability to determine how my future plays out and I'm scared and confused. I feel like every passion I've devoted myself to has no way of helping me out in the practical pursuit of wealth. Video games, movies, and guitar all happen to be the industries that are impossible to extract a steady job from. I'm at a loss. I'll just pick a career that I can stand and hope that one day I'm in a position where I can tackle my dream.

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I had my post-school plan set-up when I was in Middle School, and have followed it so far. Everything for me is working out perfectly. You need a plan of action, you need to make decisions and find your goals. i don't understand how people start college not knowing what they want. A lot of people will tell you it's ok to not know what you want. Fuck those people! I have seen individuals go into their late 20's and are in the same position a 19 year-old should be in terms of educational process. Being unaware of your goals is a dangerous affair that can destroy you. 
 
It's better to have a pie in the sky dream and fail at obtaining that than not doing anything. in a lot of cases, a bad decision is better than no decision. Join the military doing a job in a field you are interested in, go to college, go to a trade school and learn a skill. Something!

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@KaosAngel said:
"After high school I moved to Japan, hiked the largest mountain in the country, made love to my first woman, taught english, went to business school, transferred to Law School, met Kojima, people from Square Enix, and had the greatest video game voice actresses as my boss.  Dude, the gates are open, just head out there and charge in.  You'll be fine, just focus on that resolve.  Also, take lots of chances, no point living if you're not willing to risk everything for something. "

Who is that actress you speak of?
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Just don't do what I did: 1 and a 1/2 years of undecisiveness. I'm 21 now but not even sure if I'm considered a sophomore yet or still a freshman. I have around 30 college credits and wasted $5,000 for one semester at an art school with only 2 classes? So what I'm trying to say is just take it easy. If it helps even further... I still don't know what I want to do. I want to go to Japan but it's so difficult to both go to Japan and pursue what I want. Realistically I should just go to school here in America because it's fucking America and our degrees have a standard of acceptance. Alright! So my tips... 
 

  • You're finishing high school? Go to a community college. I currently go to one. Classes are easier than in regular college, and yet they transfer over. Ask about their associate's degree, this should have general education-based credits that transfer over. You can also take some electives and have fun, like art or cooking or something that will help determine your ultimate goal.
  • Think about your college while going to community college. Some colleges, like the one I'm interested in (DePaul), have scholarships that encourage you to transfer credits to their school.
  • Definitely don't hold off on all types of college. Don't just work, it doesn't help. If you go to community college then at least you're getting some education.
  • Work hard. Like I said, I still don't know what I want to do but community college gives you a year or two (however much you want or need) to think about it.
 
Point of my post? Community college. It's more mature than high school but less demanding than typical college and offers a wide variety of classes to help you decide.
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Save up enough money for a plane ticket, fly somewhere exotic, find a monastery and better yourself.  Come back all Zen and shit in twenty years or so and be awesome.
Also, inner peace would probably let you kick ass at whatever crazy new mentally controlled consoles they'd better have by then.

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I think you shouldn't pressure yourself. Think about what you want to do with your life, dream. And pursue them! 
 
For me that's the only worthwhile way of living. Being rich or poor.  

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@Termite: 
 
You've obviously never doggy-styled a girl, have you? Besides:
 
The verb "to do" ( suru, polite form shimasu) is often used to make verbs from nouns ( ryōri suru "to cook", benkyō suru "to study", etc.) and has been productive in creating modern slang words.
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@LordXavierBritish:  This is why I follow you.
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life doesnt even start till after high school. high school is just there to determine your social skills. other than that you can basically do what ever if you make the plans and go through with them.

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If you honestly have no idea what you want to do then you might want to hold off on college because I think it's too expensive to just go and take random classes to figure out what to do and there is no telling how long it will take to find out. You could just take some time off and think about it for a while and work in the mean time or if you have the money you could travel or something... But, I've heard that if you take a break between high school and college it's hard to go back, however, that varies...    I don't think it's a big deal if you don' t know what to do next, it can work out fine anyway you go.  
Like my parents went into the army, my oldest sister went to a specialized school, I'm going to be in my second year in college, and my middle sister went straight to work so you should be good with whatever you choose to do :)    
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@Video_Game_King said:
" @ajamafalous: 
 
Quoting the Wikipedia article on Japanese:
 
As a result of this grammatical permissiveness, there is a tendency to gravitate towards brevity; Japanese speakers tend to omit pronouns on the theory they are inferred from the previous sentence, and are therefore understood. A single verb can be a complete sentence: Yatta! "[I / we / they / etc] did [it]!".   This means that in the course of a regular conversation, I can just yell "DOGGY STYLE!", and it would make perfect sense. I wish the English language could do things that amazing. "
"Doggy style" is a noun, not a verb.
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next thing to do in life is to go to college to something that your interested in. i picked a college (community) at the last minute of high school. i don't like school so yeah, i'm still there for like 3.5 years. it sucks that i that i;m there for so long.

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@Video_Game_King said:
" @ajamafalous:   I've my doubts that such things are possible. It reminds me of my plans to yell "RAMADAN!" at people (in place of "Happy Ramadan"), only with more sex. "
lol. The exclusion only counts for the subject not the happy haha.
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@ajamafalous: 
 
I've my doubts that such things are possible. It reminds me of my plans to yell "RAMADAN!" at people (in place of "Happy Ramadan"), only with more sex.
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@Dj: Umm...do you live anywhere near the East coast? like could you get your ass here I have some stuff you can do...also do you have access to any guns? PM me if you're interested...
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@Video_Game_King said:
" @ajamafalous: 
 
Quoting the Wikipedia article on Japanese:
 
As a result of this grammatical permissiveness, there is a tendency to gravitate towards brevity; Japanese speakers tend to omit pronouns on the theory they are inferred from the previous sentence, and are therefore understood. A single verb can be a complete sentence: Yatta! "[I / we / they / etc] did [it]!".   This means that in the course of a regular conversation, I can just yell "DOGGY STYLE!", and it would make perfect sense. I wish the English language could do things that amazing. "
I'd argue that that happens often in English as well; I do that shit all the time.
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@ajamafalous: 
 
Quoting the Wikipedia article on Japanese:
 
As a result of this grammatical permissiveness, there is a tendency to gravitate towards brevity; Japanese speakers tend to omit pronouns on the theory they are inferred from the previous sentence, and are therefore understood. A single verb can be a complete sentence: Yatta! "[I / we / they / etc] did [it]!". 
 
This means that in the course of a regular conversation, I can just yell "DOGGY STYLE!", and it would make perfect sense. I wish the English language could do things that amazing.
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@Video_Game_King said:
" (I guess doggy style would count as a sentence in a conversation, somehow). "
Man.
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@Termite:  I agree with you there. There is far more complex characters out there, and I am learning traditional Chinese characters, so complex characters is not out of the ordinary for me.   
@KaosAngel: Well at least you have your mobile to use to aid you.
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I never tried to tackle life after high school, just tried to dodge it.

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I had no idea either. I didn't want to go to college because I feel like I was going to waste my time. Instead I thought about joining the military for a while and I did. I joined the Navy. Now, I'll be able to travel the world while getting payed and feel like I'm actually doing something. And this experience will help me later in my life. I'll learn how to take care of myself better.

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If you were boring in life, you can be exciting in death. Commit a creative suicide in public and people will remember you always.

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@Termite: 
 
Keep in mind that kouhaii is the most complex Japanese phrase I know. I still haven't learned how to form sentences in Japanese (I guess doggy style would count as a sentence in a conversation, somehow).
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@Video_Game_King said:
" @azhang: 
 
Some of them definitely aren't hard. Hell, I already know that 人 means person, but I can see how something like 後背位 would be hard to memorize. "
That's not a particularly difficult word; it's stuff like 欝 and 薔薇 that really get you. 
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I say you should go to college. Don't know what you want to do? Just take the general education courses. This way, when you decide on a path, you just have to take the core courses, and you're done!
 
Trust me, man. You're only going to be this young once, and may not ever have the opportunity to put this much time into school again. You'll never reach a point in life where you say, "Man, I wish I hadn't gone to college." But you may regret not going one day. So I say go to school now, and then when you're done you can backpack in foreign lands and do anything you want! You'll have even more options with a degree.

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@Berezov: We should meet up and get some bitches who are gold diggers.
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I moved to Japan too, moved in with my uncle of course. Went to school there, met some guy who kept falling off his bike, this girl who worked at the local inn and some other girl who liked steaks. Then things started getting f'd up, people started getting pushed into TV's and we met a hollow bear... 
 
Oh, did I mention I can summon monsters? Yeah there's that.

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@azhang: It's still too hard...the one thing Japan had to steal from China had to be the characters.  -_-
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I didn't know either out of High School, until I took a few college classes and found something interesting I can do.

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I know the advice is not that great... but dude 
 
Just live, if you're not gonna do college, just live life. Hang with friends, plan a road trip, follow a band cross country, just be alive.

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Do not forget in all of this that KaosAngel has extremely rich parents and had the ability to do all this as he was likely rolling round on daddy's chequebook or at least had it as a back up.

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@KaosAngel: It is based on Chinese characters, but the Japanese have simplified some characters in their own way from the traditional Chinese characters. 
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@Video_Game_King said:
" @azhang: 
 
Some of them definitely aren't hard. Hell, I already know that 人 means person, but I can see how something like 後背位 would be hard to memorize. "
Oh god.
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@azhang: It's the same as Chinese...and Japan uses about 1.5k on average, I only know about 200...that shit is too hard.  I can't do it, so I use my mobile for most of them.  >.>
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@Video_Game_King:   
Well I am studying Chinese, so I understand it is hard. However, I do not really think writing characters in Japanese is that difficult because a lot of the characters they have are not that difficult to write.

  


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@azhang: 
 
Some of them definitely aren't hard. Hell, I already know that 人 means person, but I can see how something like 後背位 would be hard to memorize.
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@Dj said:
 Video games, movies, and guitar all happen to be the industries that are impossible to extract a steady job from. 
If you have a clue as to what you want to do, then do it.   Somebody else is doing the thing that you want to do.  You can do what you want to do.
If you want a steady job, there is a path for the steady job.  Go to college.
If you want to go into video games, movies, or start a band, to do something creative, then that may require a leap of faith on your part.  There is no set path, you just have to have faith and take a running jump.
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Stop with this nonsense. Mundane and mediocre outnumber the talented. You're not the only average person. There are plenty of things you can do, you just apply yourself. You'll soon find yourself miles behind the pack if you mope for too long.

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You don't tackle life.  Life tackles you.

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@ajamafalous:  I agree with what you said. I am in the same situation as well.
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I've been thinking about this kind of thing for the past few months. I'm in my second year of college, and if I didn't already have all this student loan debt, I would drop out and just go get a simple job somewhere (waiter, cashier, etc.) instead of all this "reach for the stars" bullshit society feeds us. Problem is that I was ushered into college without really thinking about it just because it was the "next step" in the educational ladder.
 
@Toms115 said:

" who cares about financial security? as long as you can afford to eat and do something you love, simultaneously, then nothing else matters. "
Basically this.
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@KaosAngel said:
" @Video_Game_King: I picked it up in 3 months, before going I could do it basic.  After the house family teaching me, and talking to people...it took about 3 months to get it down.  Still can't write for shit...to much chinese. "
The characters can't be that bad.
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Tch, I'm a junior in college and I still don't know what I want to do. I just picked a major that semi-interested me and went with it so I wouldn't be here for like 8 years.  Beyond that I'm fucking clueless man. Welcome to the club.

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@Video_Game_King: I picked it up in 3 months, before going I could do it basic.  After the house family teaching me, and talking to people...it took about 3 months to get it down.  Still can't write for shit...to much chinese.
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given what little experience i have, the only advice i can offer is that, whatever you do, make sure you're keeping your creative fulfilment bar full. who cares about financial security? as long as you can afford to eat and do something you love, simultaneously, then nothing else matters.

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@KaosAngel said:
" After high school I moved to Japan, hiked the largest mountain in the country, made love to my first woman, taught english, went to business school, transferred to Law School, met Kojima, people from Square Enix, and had the greatest video game voice actresses as my boss.  Dude, the gates are open, just head out there and charge in.  You'll be fine, just focus on that resolve.  Also, take lots of chances, no point living if you're not willing to risk everything for something. "
I'm confused as to how this all happened. Did you know Japanese in high school or something? Also, does it work both ways (can you teach Japanese)?
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@Dj:  If you don't know what you want to do then pick a 'back up' career so to give you time to decide what you actually want to do with your life. I studied film making when I was 20 and now I'm almost 30!!! I've discovered that animation is what I want to do and I'm working at it everyday and getting more done this year than I have the last decade as an editor/ production assistant. You just need to bide your time until it hits you. It'll come out of nowhere so get something else going in the mean time so you have a good launching pad for future success!
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One of the best things you can do from my experience, is to just go out and meet people.
 
Meeting people leads to numerous contacts and possible job situations.

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YOU SHOULD SHOOT UP SOME HEROIN AND GO TO THE MOON BRETHEN