@loryuo: You should look up a little something called Victim Blaming. The truth is, she isn't in any way to blame, and screw you for implying that she is. The person who made those comments, the person who ultimately holds the responsibility, the person who could have made the decision to restrain himself and not say those comments was Aris: The buck stops at him. He is solely responsible for his actions. It is not Miranda's fault in any way shape or form for the comments he made, she is not somehow to blame for his comments because she didn't ask him to stop sooner. Seriously, that's just stupid.
Also we all know you say heated things when you get angry, but he's still responsible for what he said. It doesn't somehow excuse him from what he said. The problem that many people have (myself included) is that when called out on his offensive speech, instead of just admitting that he did something wrong, that he went to far, and that maybe, just maybe, he was sexually harassing this woman, he decided to entrench himself farther and defend himself instead of admitting that he did something wrong.
I understand getting angry when someone calls you out for being an asshole, no one likes being an asshole, but seriously own up to it instead of digging yourself farther in and being more of an asshole in the process.
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