My family is from a country where, even with Christianity being one of many dominant religions, Santa is irrelevant and kids are perfectly content. We celebrate Christmas as a casual, non-religious thing. As I grew up, the process of "finding out" was always mild to nagging disappointment (re: Santa, Disney characters, etc.). I felt lied to (which I was), and my kid self asking "So hey... is this actually real? Can you tell me?" was met with condescending smiles and awkward silences.
Like you, I don't see the point in perpetuating this sort of thing. I felt pretty insulted and sort of jaded, mostly cause I was a naive, all-in sort of kid. Like, why tell me that in the first place when you saw how I 100% believed it? Haha. I would much rather celebrate Christmas (as a specific examples) as a time of fun, gift-giving, food, thoughtfulness (religious or otherwise), and good memories above all. Do I personally believe that Christmas can be just as, if not more, enjoyable without the Santa thing? Absolutely.
I get the "beauty" and "innocence" in telling kids these things, but it also kinda sucks. It gave me the belief that the real world is too dark, emo, etc. that I need to rely on (essentially) lies to get through it. But I also feel there's nothing wrong with using fairy tales, fables, and story times to instill things like good sense, curiosity, imagination, and a sense of play. Perhaps the commenters who are feel contrary feel this way about Santa specifically, but I think there better ways of giving a kid a "good childhood" in many of the discussed aspects. I definitely could have done without it, but that's just my 2 cents.
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