Need advice

@Aegon said:

@Leviticus128 said:

Oh no.

So I guess now it's ok to show you guys the Brad/Sara shipping fanfic that I've been working on?

Huh.

When this thread--and more specifically, this user--popped up I could have sworn it was produced by a computer.

Either there's an honest-to-goodness human being behind this profile, or bot programmers are getting really, really good...

Send him locks of your hair to tell him you'll always be with him.

Letters. Nothing turns a guy on-er than letters.

Tell him what you feel. Either he will be inclined to pursue those feelings or not. Either way this grief will end.

First off, thanks for sharing (and i actually mean that, since this is a nice distraction from my own problems right now), and second, just talk to him. I know that sounds scary, but it is what you have to do, if you want any chance of moving on (either towards what you want, or onto something new). I can tell you for sure that not talking about it is one of the worst things you could do in this situation...

poke him on facebook :D

Send nudes?

@Imissyou said:

Why does this guy faf around and not come to me when I call him. I have a great body and an irresistable soul.

But you are a shitty lier.

@Leviticus128 said:

Well done sir. But $13.55 per second is still outrageous!

@TheHumanDove said:

On the contrary, my OH knows about him as I told him a few weeks ago....even showed him pictures and explained the whole scenario. That is why I'm confident I can see this through to the end

@Zor said:

First off, thanks for sharing (and i actually mean that, since this is a nice distraction from my own problems right now), and second, just talk to him. I know that sounds scary, but it is what you have to do, if you want any chance of moving on (either towards what you want, or onto something new). I can tell you for sure that not talking about it is one of the worst things you could do in this situation...

Great!

I want to talk to him as I am sure he likes me as much as I like him and want to get to know him better. I will tell him all he wants to know too so that he is not under any wrong impressions.

@Imissyou said:

@Zor said:

First off, thanks for sharing (and i actually mean that, since this is a nice distraction from my own problems right now), and second, just talk to him. I know that sounds scary, but it is what you have to do, if you want any chance of moving on (either towards what you want, or onto something new). I can tell you for sure that not talking about it is one of the worst things you could do in this situation...

Great!

I want to talk to him as I am sure he likes me as much as I like him and want to get know him better. I will tell him all he wants to know too so that he is not under any wrong impressions.

Sounds like a plan. Glad this thread could maybe sorta possibly help in some small way. Good luck with it! :)

@Leviticus128 said:

excellent touch with Brad's monitor. ;)

No we're not into that shit....first he was shocked, then angry and then in a state of confusion with regards to my choice of man. He still can't get his head around it....but ultimately he agreed after days of arguing back and forth that it's my choice and he will move out if I go ahead with it. Maybe he thinks I'm joking...

As ironic as it is to lock this topic down due to the topic being flooded with GB dating advice memes given one of them is my avatar I do have to rehash the point that with all the recent spam being posted to the site we would appreciate it if users could keep the "regular" spam to a minimum for now. Thanks!