@nyxfe: Sorry, I tend not to agree with your rationalization. There are numerous terms that started benign and simplistic and turned derogatory by their use. Negro is simply a word for 'black', but I doubt you would defend it's use.
The problem with your rationalization of cis as a slur is that it comes from a position of complete ignorance of entire bodies of work on trans, LGBT, gender, and women's issues in both medical and social literature. Your basis for disliking the term seems to be based on tumblr image macros which people point to and decry so-called "radial social justice warriors" as if it's somehow actually indicative of the overall perception of the term.
To use your own example, the term "black" can carry seriously offensive connotations depending on it's context, yet you just used it. "That music is so black" "A guy robbed a store? I bet he was black." "Stop acting so black" are just a few quick examples of using that exact term in an offensive way. So is this term problematic? No, because it can be used in civil discourse with a technical meaning.
Again, cis only refers to gender identity matching your biological sex, so you can not accurately say that it is some sort of slur against "non-lgbt". Indeed even if it was a slur, it would be utilized only by trans people, who are an extreme minority. Conceptually it is not even feasible that such a tiny group could drive the definition of a term. The reason you have this perception, again, is due to your own ignorance of the subject. If you took every use of the term "cis" from 2014 you would likely find that it's use in legitimate texts on the subject of sex and gender to far outweigh the tiny amount it is used negatively on the internet.
While I appreciate the attempt at "N***** is just a word too" which you were clearly hinting at, the difference there would be an overwhelming majority using the term to enslave and dominate a minority of people who, are still to this day, largely perceived negatively because of it. Cis people are not opressed, they are the overwhelming majority.
The negative use of "cis" among trans culture is similar to the negative use of "white" among non-white culture who have been oppressed - it points to the oppressor and is understandable by others who have experienced similar oppression, creating solidarity. While I do not personally condone using the word as a catch-all for ignorant and anti-trans people, I do understand why it is used. That does not mean the word suddenly becomes a tool of oppression. You don't read a textbook on racial biology and get offended when they use the term white/Caucasian do you?
Honestly, if you wanted to more accurately represent hate of non-LGBT people, you may want to go with "cishet" (meaning cisgendered, hetero), MRA (men's rights advocate), or such. While "cishet" is technically just a shorthand, it's use is largely seen as a statement of "typical cishet people" the same way you might see "typical white people". In either case, what these words point to is not "all non trans/non gay people", they point to the ignorance or hate which is typically displayed by people in society who largely identify as straight and cisgendered.
The repeated and systematic violence and oppression of LGBT and trans people is what creates terms like these, which again, are largely used as in-jokes in their own community. To state that a technical word should not be used because you are not familiar with it in any other context is beyond comprehension.
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