So my gilfrined an I ended things last summer. We decided on being "just friends'" but still being intimate. Everything was going as planned. Haninging out with her kids, spending time with her, either in person or on the phone while she was going through nursing school. But in November something changed. She came over out of the blue at like 4 AM after Black Friday shopping with her mom and sister. We talked for a while about what Christmas gifts she got for her family and we made out for a while before she left to go home. We texted for a week or so. She invited me to go see a movie with her and her daughter. Had a fun time. Come December, I havent laid eyes on her or heard her voice for a month. Just texts. I drop off lunch to her ( as we sometimes do) but she brushes me off and I say hi and act like a prick for the 5 seconds we see each other. She messages me later that day asking why Im mad. I respond with the typical self centered "i havent seen you or heard you for nearly a month. what the fuck is going on? did you find someone else and dont want me around anymore?" response. She turns it around saying shes too busy with school (which never stood in the way) and that she didnt have time. I said "Ok. Whatever." The texting goes on for most of this January (aside form me dropping off Christmas presents for her and her kiddos, who Im head over heels for, and also happens to be my bithday) with a quick chat and a distant hug. Then the other day she asks me to go get dinner with her since she "has a free moment" snd we meet up. Dinner is fine and when she gets to her car its another distant hug and not neary a goodbye from me. And now to day she asks me what I did today and I tell her and she dosent respond to my refletive querry for 2 hours. She finall responds with her and her daughter went to the movies. Now normally this is a normal thing, but every single time its just her and her daughter, she asks me to come along. Pre and post break up. And the theatre is literally 2 minutes from my house. Im finally getting the message. She dosent want to be friends anymore, and dosent want me near her family anymore, and its breaking my heart. Hence why Im drinking some Crystal Skull Vodka (I havent been intoxicated in like 2 years) and feeling goddamned sorry for myself.

@PulledaBrad:

You're writing is too 'right on' to be that of a drunk person's. I'm drunk right now. Am I giving it away by my poor spelling? NO!!!

@JasonR86 said:

@PulledaBrad:

You're writing is too 'right on' to be that of a drunk person's. I'm drunk right now. Am I giving it away by my poor spelling? NO!!!

Well said sir, I am also drunk and my grammer is spot on.

@ozzy369123 said:

@JasonR86 said:

@PulledaBrad:

You're writing is too 'right on' to be that of a drunk person's. I'm drunk right now. Am I giving it away by my poor spelling? NO!!!

Well said sir, I am also drunk and my grammer is spot on.

I ppint you lads to my misspelled title. Also this too about an hour to write. I ARE CAREFULl . Sometimes.

@ozzy369123 said:

@JasonR86 said:

@PulledaBrad:

You're writing is too 'right on' to be that of a drunk person's. I'm drunk right now. Am I giving it away by my poor spelling? NO!!!

Well said sir, I am also drunk and my grammer is spot on.

Yet your spelling sucks!

Me either- since new years, in fact- and I think I'm going to keep it that way for awhile. Though I do have this un-opened bottle of Crystal Skull that I bought on my 21st birthday... I'm never gonna drink it.

I haven't been drunk since New Year's. I really oughta change that this weekend.

@TooWalrus: Crystal Skull vodka comes in an awesome bottle

@PulledaBrad: Yes... yes it does.

I've never been drunk in my entire life.

I don't think I have ever actually been drunk before. That, or if I have been, I've been far more coherent than what I would be lead to believe is normal by the way other people act and behave and so on and so forth when they're drunk.

As for your situation, bummer. There's probably something more there that's going on, but all I can say is move on. Note, not just go find someone else to hook up with, but, let go and don't hang on it and dwell on it for too long. On the plus side, at least she told you? And told you herself? The only girlfriend I've ever had broke up with me through a mutual friend of mine. I kind of saw it coming since we were spending less and less time together, but, it's kind of a big bummer when someone's not even willing to say something to you personally. Or one friend of mine straight up asked me to be the best man at his wedding... and then proceeded to stop talking to me completely for no known reason. Shit happens and you gotta move on and find new people to include in your life.

@ozzy369123 said:

@JasonR86 said:

@PulledaBrad:

You're writing is too 'right on' to be that of a drunk person's. I'm drunk right now. Am I giving it away by my poor spelling? NO!!!

Well said sir, I am also drunk and my grammer is spot on.

I wrote a drunk blog way back when they were still the thing to do. My grammar and spelling did not suffer!

@CL60 said:

I've never been drunk in my entire life.

You sir are the best.

Yeah I'm drunk too. Totally drunk. Cool.

Hey im drunk too! Well buzzed.
Dude try to talk to her, see whats up. Seems like you're still in to this girl. If she doesn't wanna start things up again or seems real distant..
BREAK
IT
OFF
Stay friends if you want but maaaan. Don't be toyed around with. Even if she's not doing it intentionally, if this relationship or friendship or whatever it is, is making you feel shitty more then it's making you feel good, it's not worth it mandingo. You're better then that. You're a Bomber.
YOU DESERVE BETTER.
That's my advice. I'm going to make another gin and tonic now. Maybe go out again. I don't know. Where's my shoes?

Cut off all connections with her

Mate...she's got kids?

Run to the hills!

@Rebel_Scum said:

Mate...she's got kids?

Run to the hills!

But he is heads over the hills for them, so its cool.

To TC, it sucks what happened, but you two obviously didn't have a healthy relationship. This is something that could possibly be for the best, because you obviously were more into the relationship then she.

Drunk threads, yay! I haven't been on Giantbomb for far too long.

days since drunkenness 730 ...0

@JasonR86 said:

@PulledaBrad:

You're writing is too 'right on' to be that of a drunk person's. I'm drunk right now. Am I giving it away by my poor spelling? NO!!!

My God I don't even remember writing this.

All the cool kids are doing it. You want to be cool, right?

You're better off sober. And without her, if she can't be honest with you.

Here's my advice: 

Move on man, don't beat yourself up...

Gutted.

From your story, I think it's a little too early to call it quits. If you really care about her and her daughter, give it one more chance. At least talk to her about what has been going on, and see where you both stand.

Fun fact. The last time I was drunk, I went online and played Call of Duty 4 and spoke into the mic with an obnoxious accent saying "HEEEEEEEYYYYYYY" and "NO YOU DI-INT" every time I died. I then ate Famous Amos cookies and vomited all over the place.