I am torn regarding the term "gamer", in part because of how many people, including some here, have used it in a misguided and destructive way. It is not a matter of how some gaming news writers have criticized it, but how companies and many fans of videogames have abused it over the years.
I, for one, think there is still value in a "gamer" concept. Obviously, there is the textbook definition which is rather broad and amorphous. Playing videogames doesn't inherently say anything about you besides that you play videogames. What you play and how you play may say something, but all kinds of people play videogames to varying degrees.
Unfortunately, many people have for a long time now used "gamer" as a distinction for a subsection of people who play games. Instead of being the inclusive term it inherently is, it has been abused to mean a kind of person within a sort of club. People identify with "our hobby" to the exclusion of those who play games but don't fit their mold. We've seen enduring derision toward "casual gamers" and even "girl gamers". The term "gamer" has been misused for years to really mean "male gamer" in practice, and women have been pushed to conform to "male gamer" norms to even be considered a "real gamer".
In the last few years, many have also pushed to limit the topics the gamer community can talk about. People are criticized as not "enough of a gamer" to have a valid opinion, and many have claimed that their gamer communities don't need discussion of social issues or any topic surrounding gaming they disapprove of. People "just want gaming to be fun", and in turn, fellow gamers can only do or say things that protect their personal sense of fun. So, when others express problems they see that hinder their own fun, they're treated as spoil sports who aren't acting "as a gamer should". "Ugh, can't we talk about anything else?" or "this isn't gaming related" at every turn. Thread after thread, article after article. This claim of ownership of "our hobby" as gamers continues to be used as a means to limit who is allowed in and what can be discussed.
Ultimately, I believe the term "gamer" has value now as a potential avenue for standing up to such intolerance amongst a subsection of gaming fans. Gamer is an inherently inclusive term, dealing with a broad range of people who play and enjoy videogames. And people should strongly use it in that way.
I am a gamer, and I have as much a right as anyone else to impact gaming. Male, female, gay, straight, black, white, whatever you are, if you play games, you can be part of this gaming community, and you should be able to have fun in it. Gaming is a source of joy, empowerment, and community for a wide range of people, and we cannot allow some vocal fans still stubbornly clinging to an exclusive club mentality to keep this community from being a safe and fun place for the diverse crowd that loves games.
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