Casual Sex - Good or Bad?

Casual sex is great.  Casual guilt free sex is the best, just make sure you don't get any kind of STD or some shit AJAX can't get off.

the casual market is ruining the industry!

Me personally?  I'm not interested in casual sex.  I'll just wait until I'm married or be a virgin the rest of my life.

" my nsa girl is on bc. protection? fuck a condom waste of time. "

Theortically, I should be game for a one night stand, but the more I think about it, the more I think I would be more comfortable fucking in a relationship.

I believe that the act of sex should benefit both parties.

I'am virgin, what should I know?

Although I saw my former best friend gets his brain cooked by the pressures of single fatherhood because he didn't wear a condom and the girl didn't want it either and guess where it got them? Two kids and now they're dating someone else. So just be careful whom you fuck.

" @Wrighteous86: Yeah, but I'm going to stick to the whole "no sex before marriage" idea.  I'm just old fashioned like that. "

Either way it ends with me crying.

wow this thread is still going?

" @Hizang: Not bad, just a waste of time. 

Casual sex sounds great at first, but it's shallow and if it doesn't lead anywhere, leaves you unfulfilled. 

You'll forget about all the cheap flings in just a few years, and in the end, all you'll really have left are the relationships that really mattered. Why waste your short life on boys/girls who don't mean anything to you? Find one that's worth it and invest yourself in that relationship. You'll come away with much more than just sex in the end. Obviously, you won't always know which boys/girls are worth your time spent until you give them a try, just saying that once you know they're not worth it, it's better for both of you to just move on. 

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" wow this thread is still going? "

Casual sex is is empty and meaningless once you find out what intimate relationship sex feels like.

" Casual sex is is empty and meaningless once you find out what intimate relationship sex feels like. "

No moral objection against it--go for it. Just not for me. I think I'm too sensitive for it.

Couldn't say. Never tried it.  :|

Casual sex is great, but formal sex is better.

off topic question but what does bc mean? sorry I searched google and all bc I could find was the before christ.

" off topic question but what does bc mean? sorry I searched google and all bc I could find was the before christ. "

I'd say it's probably not good for you if you're not really already emotionally attached to the person you're having casual sex with.

it dose not matter who you are, as long as you are human. there is no such thing as casual sex. You may want to believe that there is a way to have sex with out any connection at all, but that's just impossible. It's simple physiology. your going to feel a connection no matter how minuscule to the person that you are having sex with. B/c at some base level you feel a connection with them to begin with. Otherwise you would not want to eve have had sex with the person in the first place.

................................................................................. wait, what?

As long as you're not looking for a relationship. Which you will. Eventually.

Casual sex has led to some of the best, and other times traumatizing experiences (pm me for details).. so usually at least it's not boring..until they keep calling afterward, then it's over.

" Honestly, sex is usually a lot more complicated than "good or bad" in most situations, so it depends. "

Hard for me to even think about sex without feeling an emotional attachment to someone (ie. celebrities and random women on the internet don't do it for me); I need that trust  and comfort with the other person, which I didn't really get with the couple of casual encounters (ie. with strangers) I've had. Still ok, but as they say, it's as satisfying as a sneeze. Just be sure to bag that thing if you're going for it.

As for casual sex with friends, can't say I've done it, if only because the two people that that came up with, respectively, a) strangely got offended when she said she could have sex with others but killed the deal when I said I'm having the same for me (I know the thing's messed up already, but wtf) and b) friend B was married and I a'int touching that, no matter how much she insists that her and hubby are in an open relationship (glad I didn't buy it, considering when she did find someone, she was quite insistent on hiding it from said hubby)

That quote tree is so fucked on the mobile site.

" It all depends on the person.  Some people are just fine with casual sex.  Others are not.  Personally, I'm not into it unless there's at least a good friendship there or something. "

I just deleted all the empty quote trees of Axxols comment

Do not clog up a thread with empty quotes, or cultivate quote-trees. 

Well this is not me bragging, but iv'e been with 11 girls so far, and well only three of them were my girlfriends, the other ones were random girls i just picked up while hittin the town or whatever.. to be completely honest i'm kind of a relationship kind of guy (each girl was my girlfriend for atleast 1 - 1.5 year(s) ) so i don't really enjoy casual/random sex but i don't really have anything against it either, just feel like a douchebag sometimes though.

I'm 20 btw

It's fun, can get you in trouble and I've pretty much grown out of it at the ripe old age of 28.

It's awesome. So long as the female isn't expecting anything more the next day. 

Casual sex is fine, as long as you're aware of the risks involved and try to mitigate them as much as possible (use you brain).

Seems rather meaningless the older you get, though.

As long as both people involved know it's just casual sex, then it's fine. But if the other person is expecting a serious relationship, then you're a dick.

Bad

LOL AT THIS THREAD

" I personally am still at the age where I would get attached to the person, so I am avoiding it, I just created this topic to see other peoples views. "

" @eezo: 19 Years of age :) "

Duct tape and handcuffs... (hold the butter)

little bit of both

I used casual sex to explore and confirm my sexuality. I now only have sex within relationships and don't feel casual sex would titillate the way it used to. 

" Thats what I thought, I've been going into dates with a "Could this be my soul mate" frame of mind, I need to get out of that habit and just roll with it. "