Everyone knows that Hardcore Sex is better than Casual sex. Casual sex just leaves you feeling empty with little satisfaction, Hardcore sex is something you have to work for but it's worth it in the end
@beej: Sooooo you're one of those idiots that think the crosswalk is force-field? You just walk out into the street thinking cars must stop for me? Rightfully so then, they should have backed up over you to boot... hah! ; )
@Franstone: If by that you mean, 3 lanes of 4 lanes were stopped, I couldn't see around the closest car, but they waved me on through the crosswalk and I was struck by a car that I couldn't see, while I was told I could cross by a driver, and while another driver was violating traffic laws.
There's no reason two consenting adults shouldn't be able to do it but I think that both parties have to be aware that in these situations it's possible that one or both people will develop deeper feelings for the other, it's something that people still don't seem to take into account.
I've always thought it's a little wrong for the highest expression of intimacy to be "casual." When I need some non-commital affection, I have some friend with hugging and hand holding benefits. Once, we were really horny, and cuddled. Really, though, I'm a virgin and will be that way until I'm married. Then my wife and I... we'll go at it like rabbits. I guess I can understand why this sort of thing exists, though. Sex is like Pringles: "once you pop, you just can't stop!"
I've always thought it's a little wrong for the highest expression of intimacy to be "casual." When I need some non-commital affection, I have some friend with hugging and hand holding benefits. Once, we were really horny, and cuddled. Really, though, I'm a virgin and will be that way until I'm married. Then my wife and I... we'll go at it like rabbits. I guess I can understand why this sort of thing exists, though. Sex is like Pringles: "once you pop, you just can't stop!"
You can write a love letter with all the chemistry of a bag of dry potatoes, sex is kinda the same way. It's not intimate because of what it is, and you always know if it is or not.
I've always thought it's a little wrong for the highest expression of intimacy to be "casual." When I need some non-commital affection, I have some friend with hugging and hand holding benefits. Once, we were really horny, and cuddled. Really, though, I'm a virgin and will be that way until I'm married. Then my wife and I... we'll go at it like rabbits. I guess I can understand why this sort of thing exists, though. Sex is like Pringles: "once you pop, you just can't stop!"
You can write a love letter with all the chemistry of a bag of dry potatoes, sex is kinda the same way. It's not intimate because of what it is, and you always know if it is or not.
You're telling me getting naked and going at it isn't intimate?
Sure I guess? As long as you're doing it safely. Speaking of sex, here's a protip from a gay friend of mine; Don't use Deep Heat as a lubricant. It works but it also burns like Hell.
It didn't work out so well for me, or anybody who I've ever known to go that route, but perhaps you'd be different. Don't go into it expecting to be fulfilled in meaning of the word. You'll have a few seconds of bliss followed by either apathy or emptiness, depending on you state of mind. You'll find yourself bouncing from partner to partner breaking hearts and wasting time and then when you finally do meet somebody you want to be with you'll have a very hard time explaining your past lifestyle. But maybe that's just me.
A little from column A; a little from column B. If you are just out for a good lay, you are probably a d-bag. If you need a little healing, you are okay to go. Just freaking use protection. They shouldn't have to have a government organized program to tell people that. It's common sense.
It didn't work out so well for me, or anybody who I've ever known to go that route, but perhaps you'd be different. Don't go into it expecting to be fulfilled in meaning of the word. You'll have a few seconds of bliss followed by either apathy or emptiness, depending on you state of mind. You'll find yourself bouncing from partner to partner breaking hearts and wasting time and then when you finally do meet somebody you want to be with you'll have a very hard time explaining your past lifestyle. But maybe that's just me.
I didn't know you were part of a Russian Prostitution Ring.
It didn't work out so well for me, or anybody who I've ever known to go that route, but perhaps you'd be different. Don't go into it expecting to be fulfilled in meaning of the word. You'll have a few seconds of bliss followed by either apathy or emptiness, depending on you state of mind. You'll find yourself bouncing from partner to partner breaking hearts and wasting time and then when you finally do meet somebody you want to be with you'll have a very hard time explaining your past lifestyle. But maybe that's just me.
Totally agree with this.
Honestly a big part of sex to me is intimacy with somebody you LOVE; it's not just solely about short-term physical pleasure. There are a few "loosey goosey" type of girls I knew from high school that lived this sort of lifestyle where they thought that because they're in their late teens/early twenties they should "use it before they lose it" or "mess around before they settle down," and they're miserable. And no guy wanting an actual relationship is going to be happy when the topic of previous relationships/sexual partners comes up. Personally I would have a REALLY hard time looking past that no matter how much I may or may not believe in second chances and whatnot.
It didn't work out so well for me, or anybody who I've ever known to go that route, but perhaps you'd be different. Don't go into it expecting to be fulfilled in meaning of the word. You'll have a few seconds of bliss followed by either apathy or emptiness, depending on you state of mind. You'll find yourself bouncing from partner to partner breaking hearts and wasting time and then when you finally do meet somebody you want to be with you'll have a very hard time explaining your past lifestyle. But maybe that's just me.
I didn't know you were part of a Russian Prostitution Ring.
It didn't work out so well for me, or anybody who I've ever known to go that route, but perhaps you'd be different. Don't go into it expecting to be fulfilled in meaning of the word. You'll have a few seconds of bliss followed by either apathy or emptiness, depending on you state of mind. You'll find yourself bouncing from partner to partner breaking hearts and wasting time and then when you finally do meet somebody you want to be with you'll have a very hard time explaining your past lifestyle. But maybe that's just me.
Totally agree with this. Honestly a big part of sex to me is intimacy with somebody you LOVE; it's not just solely about short-term physical pleasure. There are a few "loosey goosey" type of girls I knew from high school that lived this sort of lifestyle where they thought that because they're in their late teens/early twenties they should "use it before they lose it" or "mess around before they settle down," and they're miserable. And no guy wanting an actual relationship is going to be happy when the topic of previous relationships/sexual partners comes up. Personally I would have a REALLY hard time looking past that no matter how much I may or may not believe in second chances and whatnot.
I don't. I'm a guy. I've had casual sex and relationship sex and stuff in-between. I survived and a lot of it was fun. I also am not so small minded that I should judge anyone who I befriend or fall in love with too. Either you're an adult and you accept people who do adult things or you're a person in adult body with the mind of a child who can't deal with adult concepts. Being responsible means owning up to your own choices, not judging other people for their own. "loosey goosey" - where are you from? 1950s Smalltown USA?
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