We were out with a pack of "friends"(I was 19teen and rarely left my pc :P). And there were few people I didn't know. She was sitting right across me on the opposite site of the table (turned front to me) and she was looking at me during eating. She had such a crazy emotional look. I will never forget it. She basically couldnt focus on eating that thing.I instantly falled in love. I messaged her in the evening and we were out on a date next week and a couple week later.
...Sure, why not. Takes all sorts and so forth. If someone says they fell in love at first sight, who am I to argue? I've got better things to do than pick apart other peoples' emotions.
I believe there are certain people we feel a strange draw towards - when those people are part of our dating pool we might mistake it for love at first sight, but it could just as easily be a strange mental hiccup that ultimately means nothing.
Not really, I believe you could get a strong sense of affection or infatuation, but actual love is built up slowly as you get to know the person, that's why you should never say "I love you" too early; your partner might not be there yet.
Love? No, I think actually knowing someone is a prerequisite for love. But there was a girl who I really liked after the first time I saw her, and not because she was cute or anything, it was just one of those weird gut reactions.
At first sight, it's infatuation. Like the reverse of being prejudice. You assign all these positive qualities to someone that you've just met based solely on their appearance.
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