Brought them to the movies on Tuesdays? I can go to the movies for free with as many people as I want on Tuesdays because my internet provider offers me some sort of deal.
yea that sounds pretty cheap to me but i dont think they will care. As long as you treat her well and make her feel great, i think it will be a success.
They would be impressed with getting in for free or think you are cheap for bringing them to a movie on a Tuesday. Tough one. I want to get into free movies on a Tuesday!
During the school year? Yeah. During summer? Hell no, take advantage of free tickets. If she doesn't like that she needs to bounce. But that shouldn't be all you do either lol.
" During the school year? Yeah. During summer? Hell no, take advantage of free tickets. If she doesn't like that she needs to bounce. But that shouldn't be all you do either lol. "
I wouldn't do it as a "first date" sort of thing if that's what you mean. But I see nothing wrong with just a "Hey, I can get us into the movies for free tuesday! Wanna come?"
Depends completely on the girl I guess. A lot of my friends wouldn't think twice about it but I know there are people who take things like that a little more seriously.
Definitely buy all the snacks she wants, but getting into the movie for free is only a good thing. Hell, if you can get free snacks too then go hog wild, but don't mention "I can get snacks x and y for free" because then you will seem cheap.
As long as you don't postpone the movie for like a week just to save some money or start buying her plastic roses you should be fine. And if you aren't, then it probably isn't a girl you want to date anyways.
Stuff like this is always risky with some girls. Giftcards and that type of thing can also be a problem. Just get her distracted with something else and then get your free tickets. She will be none the wiser.
@Deathdealer108 said:
" If you offer to buy snacks go right ahead. If not that is pretty cheap.... "
Also this is really bullshit. I know it's a losing argument and it will never get you laid but god damn, women should be paying for themselves and men should be paying for themselves. There's no reason for it to be otherwise at this point. I believe in being a gentlemen but don't understand why money is a part of it anymore.
" Stuff like this is always risky with some girls. Giftcards and that type of thing can also be a problem. Just get her distracted with something else and then get your free tickets. She will be none the wiser.
@Deathdealer108 said:
" If you offer to buy snacks go right ahead. If not that is pretty cheap.... "
Also this is really bullshit. I know it's a losing argument and it will never get you laid but god damn, women should be paying for themselves and men should be paying for themselves. There's no reason for it to be otherwise at this point. I believe in being a gentlemen but don't understand why money is a part of it anymore. "
I agree, having to pay everything for your your girl kind of implies that the female gender is inferior. Sort of in the same vain as one who would never hit a girl. There nothing wrong with "going Dutch".
I don't understand, you have to go to the movies when they're packed, full of annoying people crowding your armrests with their Mega-Large Popcorn? What's wrong with going on Tuesday?
" Stuff like this is always risky with some girls. Giftcards and that type of thing can also be a problem. Just get her distracted with something else and then get your free tickets. She will be none the wiser.
@Deathdealer108 said:
" If you offer to buy snacks go right ahead. If not that is pretty cheap.... "
Also this is really bullshit. I know it's a losing argument and it will never get you laid but god damn, women should be paying for themselves and men should be paying for themselves. There's no reason for it to be otherwise at this point. I believe in being a gentlemen but don't understand why money is a part of it anymore. "
I agree, having to pay everything for your your girl kind of implies that the female gender is inferior. Sort of in the same vain as one who would never hit a girl. There nothing wrong with "going Dutch"."
I think its more of a give and take kind of thing. Guys pay for stuff and protect their girl, women pretend to enjoy things they don't. Women might not pay but they will show their affection in other ways. I'm also not saying women are inferior. Many women are superior in relationships, we just have definte differences. But hey if "going Dutch" works in your relationship go ahead its just not what most girls expect.
I agree, having to pay everything for your your girl kind of implies that the female gender is inferior. Sort of in the same vain as one who would never hit a girl. There nothing wrong with "going Dutch"."
I think its more of a give and take kind of thing. Guys pay for stuff and protect their girl, women pretend to enjoy things they don't. Women might not pay but they will show their affection in other ways. I'm also not saying women are inferior. Many women are superior in relationships, we just have definte differences. But hey if "going Dutch" works in your relationship go ahead its just not what most girls expect. "
Haha, what exactly are they pretending to enjoy? Being around the guy?
I'm sorry but it can't be argued for in a logical way besides just the simple "that's the way it is" answer, which is acceptable but bullshit.
And if you did, why not just say "hey I can get us in to the theater free on Tuesday wanna see a movie?" or something? Casual-style."
That and you could also take them to a movie on another day once or twice as well, so they see that you go to the movies on Tuesday because it's free, but you would also take them to a movie when you actually have to pay for it as well.
One thing though, don't be cheesy and open doors, etc. --> not only is that weird, but you can't keep it up. Once you stop, they could complain. In other words, don't put on a fake persona to impress.
One thing though, don't be cheesy and open doors, etc. --> not only is that weird, but you can't keep it up. Once you stop, they could complain. In other words, don't put on a fake persona to impress.
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Not really sound advice here. Gotta be a gentlemen. Being cheap or going dutch is another issue, but you gotta do that kind of stuff (unless you're just the man for whatever reason or incredibly good looking)
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