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Claude's Candy Corner: Giant Bomb Life and Death

 

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I wanted to write something for you the Giant Bomb faithful and my fellow video game loving brethren. My wife passed away today after having a stroke early Monday. Why am I doing this you ask? Because Giant Bomb became my place to be when my wife's health took a turn for the worse. At the same time Jeff was fired from Gamespot, I had to quit my full time job to concentrate on my wife and become her caregiver. Jeff's blog and later Giant Bomb gave me that safe haven for fun and video games. I was 43 years old at the time and now I'm sitting at 47. I've played a lot of video games in my life starting with the great Pong. Well, Pong was kind of simple, but you know what I mean. 
 
My wife had a chronic disease called Lupus and with that many illnesses manifested themselves. She was diagnosed when she was 18 years old, and we started dating when she was 24. I was 23. Even with all the health issues, I saw her become a mental health therapist and she was still practicing part-time at the time of her death. June of this year would have marked twenty years of marriage. I loved her dearly and always will.
 
Being that Giant Bomb is just a click away on the internet, it's safe to say I've read all the well wishes and good thoughts coming my way. Being a member of Giant Bomb has meant a lot to me. I've been up and down emotionally and sometimes I can take out my frustrations here good and bad. Sometimes I feel great creativity in writing my strange and obtuse blogs. Other times I try to help and be a good guy. And then there's the forum fun, odd polls and maybe just a little bit of trollism hidden in there. I've met many people here that I consider friends and would enjoy sitting and chatting about life and video games.
 
As for the community, don't let anyone tell you you're just the internet. I'm a firm believer in speaking your mind and letting your opinion be heard. I believe in Giant Bomb and I believe in you. So let your freak flag fly Giant Bomb. I ain't going no where. Don't ban me, bro!
 
Thank you all for the good thoughts. And remember that the internet is not such a bad place, we're just going through growing pains because our world is getting smaller. 
 
Claude
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My thoughts and condolences are with you at what must be an incredibly difficult time. As I'm sure you've already discerned from all the messages above this one, the whole of Giant Bomb is here for you Claude. We love you dearly and will offer you all the support we can in the coming months and years.

Stay Other, Motherfucker.

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I have the utmost respect for you man... my sincerest condolences to you and your family.

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Claude, duder, I know I speak for us all when I say, "We're here for ya - in an internet brethren sort of way".

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I've never been good at this emotional stuff, but I safely say that I am truly sorry for your loss.

And I hope you stay strong and will continue being such an awesome duder, and continue bringing use many a laughs.

Giant Bomb wouldn't be the same without you.

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Claude, you're an amazing guy. You have my condolences.

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Claude, I didn't get to read this today, so sorry for your loss, it's a shame.

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That's not what I expected to read.

You're honestly much stronger than I would be in the same situation. I'm sorry such a tragedy had to strike you and your wife. But I'm sure you will be able to bear through it.

I've always respected you on GB, noticed that despite the oddities that can be found on GB you were the right type of oddity. I hope the next few days and weeks only get better and brighter for you, and I hope you find some of the solace and relief you need amongst the crazy here on GB.

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@FinalDasa: Thank you. People like you make me want to go back to Screened. Keep being awesome.
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Sorry to hear about your lost Claude.  
 
I was mistakenly diagnosed with Lupus at eleven and read a great deal about the disease, I can't imagine how difficult it must have been for you and your wife. Having arthritis myself I know how difficult it can be to live with a chronic illness. 
Stay strong and best wishes.

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Damn........ You have my sympathy, Claude. I'm sorry, man. You're definitely in my thoughts, and, for whatever it's worth, if you need anything, don't hesitate to PM me.

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My condolences to you Claude.

I can only hope that when I grow older I can find someone with whom I can love as passionately as you did with your wife, and they the same.

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I feel for your loss, Claude. Give yourself time to mourn.

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Sorry to hear about that, bro. My dearest condolences go to you and the family.

Stay strong.

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I am terribly sorry for your loss and you have my condolences. The internet can be a funny place at times. Unintentional relationships can develop between disparate lives while minor similarities can draw us closer together. I know I've always felt a kinship to you and the exiled oldschool although I was the youngest of the middle-aged trio. As such, I've always looked forward to your postings here. I understood some of your situation, but it wasn't my place to pry into the intimate details of your personal life; however I am sadden to hear this news now. The loss of a loved one is a terrible thing. I wish I could say something more but you know better than most of us. Take care of yourself, Claude.

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As you can tell from all the thousands of voices, mine included, we're all saddened to hear about this and thoughts are with you.

But dude, in this literally horrific time for you, your post up at the top is the one filled with the most hope. I just want to say, from everything that got said, you're an amazing person. I'm the kind of guy who when something similar, but not as awful happened to me, I locked myself up in a room and was just snapping back to everyone for weeks. I ain't strong enough to write something like that! You're really something special, Claude. Inspiring - and that's the damned greatest achievement for the humble forum poster.

Stay other. Motherfucker.

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So sorry to hear about this. I can't even begin to imagine what it's like. It's good that you can remain strong through it all though. My condolences...

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Fuck =/ I'm really sorry dude. I'm here for ya!

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@Tylea002: Always be other. Motherfucker.
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Best wishes man, the entire community is with you.

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I'm really sorry that happened to you duder, but I am glad to see that you are pulling through. Best wishes! And a smiley face :)

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Sorry for your loss, keep ya head up.

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Damn, sorry for your loss. Hope you're okay.

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I am truly sorry for your loss.

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Sorry for your loss. My condolences go to you and your family.

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All I can do is reiterate what has already been said. I am truly sorry for your loss.

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I'd give ya' a bro hug if I could.

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My condolences, Claude. My grandmother has lupus so I have seen the effects first hand, it's no joke. Your wife must have been a very strong-willed woman to live with it as she did for most of her life. I wish you all the best in this new phase of your life. And thank you for writing this, it was really beautiful. :-)

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I don't really know you (other than you being a staple of the community), but as a husband and a duder I can barley begin to imagine. I am really sorry to hear the sad news Claude.

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I'm very sorry for your loss Claude. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and yours.

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Not sure what to say here.

I love ya Claude (even if you do like the wii <3). Stay strong man.

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It seems like the older I get the more people I know who experience these types of things, and how crazy it is that I haven't had to go though something like that. So I can't say that I know how you feel, but I can offer my best wishes and prayers (if that's your thing). Good luck, duder, and I hope you still find comfort with Giant Bomb.

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@Claude: My heart is with you Claude, it's truly difficult to know what to say or write in situations like these. So yeah...stay Claude and "other motherfucker".

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Wish you the best of luck, it's not often that I start tearing over something on the internet. Losing someone is never easy, especially someone that close. I know from personal experience that it doesn't get any easier, but what got me through it was knowing that they wouldn't want you to live the rest of your life in sadness.

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Claude, you're a hell of a guy for having the outlook that you do in the wake of all that. I've always enjoyed watching your antics on here, even if I rarely have the time to actually join the fray these days, but after reading your deeply articulate, personal post, I have an even deeper respect now for the man behind all of the insanity. I, and I imagine most everyone else who's posted here, am honored to be a part of the little piece of the Internet you call home. You have my condolences all the way from Japan, whatever that might be worth.

You might call yourself The Other Motherfucker, but as far as I'm concerned, you're The Motherfucker in my book. I couldn't bring myself to recognize any other one as such.

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Really sorry to hear that. I hope you'll pull through. All my best wishes to you.

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That's tragic, Claude.

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I'm sorry for your loss. I just lost my brother to cancer a couple of weeks ago. stay strong.

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You've always been one of my favourite members on here, Claude. I'm glad that this was a place where you could come and just let loose. So sorry to hear this.

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My sincerest condolences, Claude.

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I sorry for your loss, stay strong.

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It's going to be rough Mr. Claude, but hang in there and do your best to remember the good times you had together and slowly the pain will subside to the point that it's bearable. Losing someone you care for like that is never easy, but you are a strong spirited man and I know you will keep strong. I wish you the best of luck and my heart goes out to yourself and any of your friends/family affected by this as well. From the way you talked about her it sounds like we lost one of the good ones that day.

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That sucks. I'm glad we have you here because you are the best person in the world

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Stay strong.

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Sorry for your loss man, all my best to you and yours.

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So sorry that happened to you. You've always been an interesting and funny person here. Stay strong!

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I'm so sorry for you and your family Claude.

I've been with my wife for about 17 years (married for 12 as of next month) and I could not imagine life without her. Our thoughts are with you :.(

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Keep on keepin' on, man.

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Oh man. Dude. I dunno what to say, I'm so sorry.

*sobs a bit*

Just... just go, damnit!

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Ah, geez, bro, I'm sorry. Look, I don't really know you or anything, and I've never read any of your posts or topics or whatever, but you're definitely in my thoughts and prayers. I realize we can't do much, but if there is anything we can do, just let us know.

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My dearest condoleances.