Sometimes, this entire discussion feels completely fucking hopeless. Trying to convince a generation of males who have been consuming male-oriented video games and targeted by male-oriented advertising that maybe, just maybe they'll need to start letting girls into their treehouse can feel like ramming your head into a wall. Look at the comments section on this subject in any other, non-videogame centric media outlet, and it starts to paint a pretty ugly picture of our community. It's the same with the Kotaku comments section - any story about women, feminism, or minorities can't pass without legions of (white) (male) commenters picking it all apart. On top of that, look at the members of the chat and their reaction to a transgendered woman on the recent new releases live show. Absolutely shameful.
I know that there's a good chance this post will be quoted and pulled apart and somebody will accuse me of crying out "misogyny!", just like the last ten pages. I don't blame the staff and moderators for not touching these threads with a ten foot pole, because apart from a handful of pretty rational duders, they attract the absolute worst and most backward elements of the user base.
Do you realize that the people you're complaining about don't exist in this community (or at least are not vocal)? Most of the counter arguments to any sexism claim are usually for true equality and are tired of people making a mountain out of a mole hill and labeling everything sexist. We pick apart the posts because they're logically weak and don't stand a chance against true equality. But that always falls on deaf ears because radical feminist are hell bent on convincing everyone that sexism is in absolutely everything at all times without taking anything into consideration.
The notion of arguing for "true equality" while in the same breath arguing that the cultural history and historical representation of women is irrelevant, is to me, more disgusting than someone who is an open sexist or racist.
It's a complete fallacy to suggest that you're for equality but also against the feminist movement-- the feminist movement is an equality movement. This notion of adopting this stance of "equality" exists solely to render critical thought moot-- it's an anti-historical and anti-critical stance. And what makes it so disgusting is that it's couched in the framework of altruism, when it couldn't possibly be further from that.
I've also found it quite funny that in my personal experience when I've come across people who are against the feminist movement but purport to be for a greater "equality" (lot of those people in my University as it turns out) they all happen to be white men.
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