I've never had a friend.
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I was never really popular, but I still have a strong core group of friends who i've known for years (some since I was 2) and i've never found it difficult to meet a few people here and there at school who's company I enjoy.
No worries, it just means you have a higher chance of surviving the zombie apocalypse.
Me, I have friends right now but the moment I see a zombie I'm casting them all out.
if i were a more motivated person i would search the internet far and wide for an appropriate meme to underline my disdain.
seriously, i just think someone got a hold of the op's keyboard and made a funny topic
live is just to long to be doing it all on your own, and why would you? there is a reason 4 letters of alone can be found in lonely.
About a comment here, CL60, with friends like that, who needs enemies. He's one of those few I was referring to when I said two faced backstabber. I call him that like very often, it's not like I trusted him so I can't be betrayed. I had an arguement with someone else, he and other ppl took his side, i'm not suprised how backstabbers are like. They are waiting to betray you and that's human nature. That's why I don't trust ppl.
Seems like everything the guy says is a little bit of insanity, mixed with a pop culture quote, throw in some misquotes and a typo and bam, the poster child for no friends.
I know you don't have to turn into Hitman if you've got no friends, but he's a warning sign of the dark path it may lead you down.
There's 'backstabbing' and then theres 'getting the fuck outta dodge' a conversation with you usually leads to people performing the latter rather than the former.
As for your 'Immortality' :- http://memegenerator.net/hitman47alt/ImageMacro/4367932/I-couldnt-have-typed-it-Into-this-meme-generator
Would've taken you about the amount of time it took for you to reply between posts - of course thats quite a conspiracy theory i've got going on so who knows what the truth is!
Perhaps you should stop being mean to people just for once, and stop stating everything as fact and then acting surprised when people react negatively to you? There's nothing wrong with seeking solace and finding comradery and enjoyment in other people - of course there are dicks out there that are backstabbers and in it for the money / using you. It's live, there are so many people on this planet and not all of them can be nice. However part of life is filtering through that and finding the ones that help you make your existance that much more worthwhile for knowing .
And thats What the OP is missing out on - jokes and memes aside OP really really try to make some friends, its not hard and they enrich your life in a way that is pretty hard to describe.
Hell the internet isnt a bad place to start, i've got friends i met through giantbomb that i skype and game with every night that talk as intimiately as some of my closest real lief friends!
And hitman, again jokes aside imma throw out in an olive branch here, and say that as fun as it can be arguing with you and the mocking banter betwixt you and the other users is highly amusing, i find it kind of upsetting that someone as intelligent as you are (lets be fair, you know your shit about hardware and pcs) can be either really misunderstood - or using your flair for attention for the wrong reasons.
Seriously dude it would be rad to have someone as active and willing to go that extra mile as another dude to chill with, as opposed to someone to mock - not saying change who you are or anything ! just ease of the gas a little bro!
Also stop being so emo
" @Zabant: The universe will eventually end, so what's the point in anyone existing? Also, your logic is terrible. "
Well sinse the universe will eventually end you might as well kill yourself and everyone around you. Ha...and to think you insult my logic.
I'm pretty easy to make friends, but I moved to a new town end of last year/start of this year, and you could ask nearly all of the people in my class and they'd tell you I was a fucking dick, but once people get to know me then they realise I know I'm a dick and actually find it funny. Plus people always call me racist, it's not like I mean any of it and go burn pictures of black people.
You need friends, to find out new artists and music, to take your PC over to theres for a week and play WoW: Cataclysm, then they go to yours for a week. Then you make them get Minecraft and build a sky house.
" Anyone who says being alone is better is a social outcast who's never had a true friend. "And? What's a "true friend", anyways? Ever pondered the thought that some people just prefer being alone than being with anyone else? Yes, they might be considered social outcasts, but the people who actually prefer being alone don't give a shit about that label.
This thread is depressing. I always assumed the message board/internet/gamer stereotype was exaggerated (since it doesn't apply to me), but it seems like a lot of you not only fit in with it, but are proudly defending it...
" This thread is depressing. I always assumed the message board/internet/gamer stereotype was exaggerated (since it doesn't apply to me), but it seems like a lot of you not only fit in with it, but are proudly defending it... "It's a stereotype. Of course it'll befit some people more than others, even if it's just a very small minority.
" @Landon said:No, I've never pondered that. Because I've never been in a situation where I didn't want to share what I loved with my friends. And if I really have to define a true friend to you, then you've obviously never had one. Maybe that was harsh. I'm sorry. I just find it odd that there are people who prefer to be alone. That would seem boring at times." Anyone who says being alone is better is a social outcast who's never had a true friend. "And? What's a "true friend", anyways? Ever pondered the thought that some people just prefer being alone than being with anyone else? Yes, they might be considered social outcasts, but the people who actually prefer being alone don't give a shit about that label. "
" @Wrighteous86 said:When that 'difference' is being a friendless loser: yeah. It is terrible." This thread is depressing. I always assumed the message board/internet/gamer stereotype was exaggerated (since it doesn't apply to me), but it seems like a lot of you not only fit in with it, but are proudly defending it... "Oh noes, there are people who are different than you out there. That's just terrible now isn't it. "
A load of sad bastards in this thread. Try talking to another human being. Thats a good place to start. And I don't mean over Skype.
" No, I've never pondered that. Because I've never been in a situation where I didn't want to share what I loved with my friends. And if I really have to define a true friend to you, then you've obviously never had one. Maybe that was harsh. I'm sorry. I just find it odd that there are people who prefer to be alone. That would seem boring at times. "No, you've never pondered that because it seems any perspective different than yours is alien, by what you're saying. And why would what you said be harsh? You can't even define what a "true" friend is, so does that even exist?
" @CaLe said:..." @Wrighteous86 said:When that 'difference' is being a friendless loser: yeah. It is terrible. A load of sad bastards in this thread. Try talking to another human being. Thats a good place to start. And I don't mean over Skype. "" This thread is depressing. I always assumed the message board/internet/gamer stereotype was exaggerated (since it doesn't apply to me), but it seems like a lot of you not only fit in with it, but are proudly defending it... "Oh noes, there are people who are different than you out there. That's just terrible now isn't it. "
I have a bunch of "friends" at work... But I go to work full time and I have classes full time... So if I'm not at either I'd like to just decompress and play some videos or pass out... Sure I might burn one with some co-workers from time to time, but that's about it.
People can make choices.
" @CaLe said:Who the hell are you to say what someone else should consider terrible or not? I'll live my life, you'll live yours. I don't give a fuck if you consider me a "loser"; why should I care what you think of me? People will get friends if they want them; they won't if they don't." Oh noes, there are people who are different than you out there. That's just terrible now isn't it. "When that 'difference' is being a friendless loser: yeah. It is terrible. A load of sad bastards in this thread. Try talking to another human being. Thats a good place to start. And I don't mean over Skype. "
Here's the thing, everyone that has very close friends in this thread has said it's worth it. They are in a position to know over people who haven't. Most of the people saying they enjoy not having friends have not had very close friends. They are saying this in a position where they don't know the other side. I'm not saying it's horrible to not have friends, but it is worse than the alternative.
Being a "loner" doesn't mean you can't have friends. You can enjoy doing things as an individual or by yourself, but having no one to share your life with, your ideas, your thoughts; not being able to bond or connect with another human being on a substantial level is definitively worse. Stop trying to justify it.
yeah man, every one needs friends. have you never really had even one friend? we're you home schooled maybe? it can seem hard to find friends when you dont have an easy outlet to find them (such as school or work) but maybe you should look around see if there's any clubs in your neighbourhood you can join. maybe even see if there is some giant bombers who know of clubs in your area or even live in your neighbourhood. you're definatly missing out. nothing is quite the same as having friends.
@Wrighteous86 said:
" I'm not saying it's horrible to not have friends, but it is worse than the alternative. "So your preferences, mirroring the preferences of most of the population, are supposed to dictate the preferences of every single person? How are you supposed to tell me that having no friends is objectively worse than having some? Am I supposed to tell you Pepsi is objectively worse than Mountain Dew just because that's my preference?
" Am I missing out? "Most people turn out pricks soon or later, still there are some good people that make great friends. Don't lose sight of that.
And if you ever need to talk you can discuss it with me.
Personally I don't have many friends, and most of the people I deal with I'm glad they aren't my friends. Still I know some people who are genuinely great.
@TaliciaDragonsong said:
" I easily make friends, but there's like...only two I consider to be real friends. Rest has their uses. "I imagine.
You've never come across another person in your entire life that you wanted to form a bond with on any significant level?
Hell, message boards are tools to interact with other people. Why would you have 9,000 posts on a message board if you didn't see any validity in connecting with other human beings? If you truly thought living by yourself and on your own was so much better than the alternative, I don't think you'd even seek out as vague and limited a relationship as the one you have with people on this forum.
Also, if he's asking if he's missing out, obviously he's at least curious to have a friend. Therefore, he is probably missing out.
@CaLe said:
You're just afraid of making yourself vulnerable to another human being, admit it!" @Wrighteous86: You're just being a friend fanboy, admit it! "
I saw this thread and immediately shouted to my brother: "Hey, listen to this pretty sad topic on this video game forum: 'I've never had a friend. Am I missing out?'"
Yes, goddamnit, you're missing out.
Putting up with friends and social situations is very exausting for me. I don't know why, however I can't pretend like I give a shit anymore. It just feels so fake and I don't know how you all do it.
Besides if you have friends that are loners, they rarely want to hang out anyways. You put in all the effort in the friendship and say hey let's hang out, they are like, well I don't feel like it. That on top of them being two faced backstabbers. It only works to your advantage if you are around very social ppl, if you can even keep up. They don't teach you social skills, if they did like a martial art, i'll pay for it and take it to be an expert. There is no manual on social skills because everyone expects you to learn it. Not everyone can and it can isolate them or alienate them. Then again there are ppl like me who doesn't care about other ppl that much and find ppl more of a liability.
For my forum activity, I do very much enjoy reading other peoples opinions on various topics, interacting with them, stating my own... however, it's not the same thing as real life interaction. Here, people can't directly judge me on my physique or whatever. Here, the only way I'm represented is by my avatar and these words. You can't hear my voice, see me or anything. I don't need to constantly go through ridicule or insults, here, because of that. Yes, one of the reasons I avoid others is because I'm afraid of making myself vulnerable to another human being. Maybe I'd like to form some kind of relationship with someone who shared the same tastes as I do, but I know that's impossible. Everyone's an asshole; I don't need them.
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