So I'm sitting in my parents shop serving people, a girl walks in. Now she pretty damn fit and I instantly lose the ability to concentrate on anything or anyone else. I'm normally pretty articulate and incontrol of my actions but then she walks up to the counter with her stuff and then proceed to flail around like an idiot, drop all the stuff she buying and blather like a moron.
I hate this power girls have on boys... I wonder if the same happens to girls...
Why do fit girls turn you into a fool?
So I'm sitting in my parents shop serving people, a girl walks in. Now she pretty damn fit and I instantly lose the ability to concentrate on anything or anyone else. I'm normally pretty articulate and incontrol of my actions but then she walks up to the counter with her stuff and then proceed to flail around like an idiot, drop all the stuff she buying and blather like a moron.
I hate this power girls have on boys... I wonder if the same happens to girls...
" @sjhujh: A simple "nice shoes, wanna fuck" would've helped your odds, sir. "Thanks for stealing my pick up line Jakob.
" @sjhujh: A simple "nice shoes, wanna fuck" would've helped your odds, sir. ""Nice tits!", is also a suitable pickup line.
It's because people who are in shape are rare now-a-days.
In ancient Greece it used to be the other way around. The chubbier girls where deemed hot and the thin ones, not so much.
" @Bucketdeth: Psh. I quit using that ages ago. Now I go for the guaranteed one that will ALWAYS get you laid: "Bitch, I got a gun. Get in the car." "All these awsome pick up lines, I'm going to be like one of those dudes in the AXE commercials.
@TheMustacheHero said:
" It's because people who are in shape are rare now-a-days. In ancient Greece it used to be the other way around. The chubbier girls where deemed hot and the thin ones, not so much. "I wish I could go back in time, all the guys would be after the chubby girls(no offence) then I could go for the hot smokin babes, OH LA LA.
" @TheMustacheHero said:" It's because people who are in shape are rare now-a-days. In ancient Greece it used to be the other way around. The chubbier girls where deemed hot and the thin ones, not so much. "awww, I remember those days "
good times, good times.
" @Bucketdeth: Psh. I quit using that ages ago. Now I go for the guaranteed one that will ALWAYS get you laid: "Bitch, I got a gun. Get in the car." "lmao
" @Bucketdeth: Psh. I quit using that ages ago. Now I go for the guaranteed one that will ALWAYS get you laid: "Bitch, I got a gun. Get in the car." "Jokes!
Here's a trick. Don't tell a girl you're doing this, but it's good to do. Imagine she's completely comfortable with you. Imagine you could just ask her to dance if you wanted to. When you approach a woman as a jabbering moron, at no place outside of the movies do women think "Oh! He's attracted to me." Instead, they think "Oh! He's a jabbering moron." But the thing about girls is that they want to feel like they inspire in you emotions that big. So, you see, it's all in what you do with it. A woman wants to feel like she is so lovely that you simply cannot help yourself but ask her to dance. So what you need to do is channel that jibbering energy into a sort of polite controlled fowardwardness. I'm not talking about aggressiveness. There's a difference between that and this. But you should know that aggressive men really do very often get what they want out of women, because women are as confused about men as men are about women. Women think they've inspired a huge amount of emotion in an aggressive man. Really she's just inspired something huge to happen in his pants. With women, emotions and sex are so bound up together, they have no idea how we as men operate. The idea that emotions and sex can be different entities is just not where women are based.
But see, that's the thing. A person like you is the sort of person a woman is looking for but has no idea how to find. And you know why she can't find you? Because you're too busy throwing her drinks on the ground, dumbass. Stop being, a dumbass, dumbass. Be polite, but be forward. Give yourself permission. I guarantee you will get what you want.
Ladies and Gentlemen, I present to you, Hitch!" Why do fit girls turn you into a fool? Because you dislike yourself on a fundamental level, and because of that dislike, you fear her rejection of you. Here's a trick. Don't tell a girl you're doing this, but it's good to do. Imagine she's completely comfortable with you. Imagine you could just ask her to dance if you wanted to. When you approach a woman as a jabbering moron, at no place outside of the movies do women think "Oh! He's attracted to me." Instead, they think "Oh! He's a jabbering moron." But the thing about girls is that they want to feel like they inspire in you emotions that big. So, you see, it's all in what you do with it. A woman wants to feel like she is so lovely that you simply cannot help yourself but ask her to dance. So what you need to do is channel that jibbering energy into a sort of polite controlled fowardwardness. I'm not talking about aggressiveness. There's a difference between that and this. But you should know that aggressive men really do very often get what they want out of women, because women are as confused about men as men are about women. Women think they've inspired a huge amount of emotion in an aggressive man. Really she's just inspired something huge to happen in his pants. With women, emotions and sex are so bound up together, they have no idea how we as men operate. The idea that emotions and sex can be different entities is just not where women are based. But see, that's the thing. A person like you is the sort of person a woman is looking for but has no idea how to find. And you know why she can't find you? Because you're too busy throwing her drinks on the ground, dumbass. Stop being, a dumbass, dumbass. Be polite, but be forward. Give yourself permission. I guarantee you will get what you want. "
Ha, some of these responses are classic, I especially like "nice shoes, wanna fuck" I'll keep that one under my belt, so to speak, for next time...
@Ragdrazi: Not sure about the dislike myself on a fundamental level, but you talk some sense sir, I'll take it on board! Cheers
I don't usually turn into a jabbering wreck, usually if I'm honest I'm probably pretty obnoxious.
Explain how you know all this. Are you a girl? Besides, you act you know every single girl in the world is like this and you know it. People are different." Why do fit girls turn you into a fool? Because you dislike yourself on a fundamental level, and because of that dislike, you fear her rejection of you. Here's a trick. Don't tell a girl you're doing this, but it's good to do. Imagine she's completely comfortable with you. Imagine you could just ask her to dance if you wanted to. When you approach a woman as a jabbering moron, at no place outside of the movies do women think "Oh! He's attracted to me." Instead, they think "Oh! He's a jabbering moron." But the thing about girls is that they want to feel like they inspire in you emotions that big. So, you see, it's all in what you do with it. A woman wants to feel like she is so lovely that you simply cannot help yourself but ask her to dance. So what you need to do is channel that jibbering energy into a sort of polite controlled fowardwardness. I'm not talking about aggressiveness. There's a difference between that and this. But you should know that aggressive men really do very often get what they want out of women, because women are as confused about men as men are about women. Women think they've inspired a huge amount of emotion in an aggressive man. Really she's just inspired something huge to happen in his pants. With women, emotions and sex are so bound up together, they have no idea how we as men operate. The idea that emotions and sex can be different entities is just not where women are based. But see, that's the thing. A person like you is the sort of person a woman is looking for but has no idea how to find. And you know why she can't find you? Because you're too busy throwing her drinks on the ground, dumbass. Stop being, a dumbass, dumbass. Be polite, but be forward. Give yourself permission. I guarantee you will get what you want. "
Most girls like assholes though. That's the bottom line.
I really wish bold would turn off when I want it to.
Anyway, I'm not a jabbering wreck, just quiet. I usually don't say anything until "she" says something (or makes a gesture) to me first.
Why is everybody suggesting gay? You know the gay bubble is gonna burst if people keep investing in it! I suggest going bi, so at least when the bubble does burst, you have a back-up plan.
Just wait till you find the girl of your dreams and after a night of everything going your way, it turns out she has a boyfriend. Makes being a fool feel great.
" Just wait till you find the girl of your dreams and after a night of everything going your way, it turns out she has a boyfriend. Makes being a fool feel great. "Sounds like a personal experience. I'm sorry.
"Yeah that's.... fucking weird. Being unsuccessful with women is not a valid reason to go gay. You won't go through with it. I don't even know you but you won't look to date men. Trust me.Well I'm moving to Brighton (gay capital of England for those who don't know) for Uni so I could take the opportunity to experiment if the mood takes...
Although I'd imagine it would be uncomfortable returning any favours received...
"
"Hey, some guys don't mind not receiving sometimes, you know, they might be just in it for the fun of getting you off, to help you with your little "experiment" :pWell I'm moving to Brighton (gay capital of England for those who don't know) for Uni so I could take the opportunity to experiment if the mood takes...
Although I'd imagine it would be uncomfortable returning any favours received...
"
" @sjhujh said:Ha, I'm not particularly unsucessful with women I just sometimes get in a bit of a flap..."Yeah that's.... fucking weird. Being unsuccessful with women is not a valid reason to go gay. You won't go through with it. I don't even know you but you won't look to date men. Trust me. "Well I'm moving to Brighton (gay capital of England for those who don't know) for Uni so I could take the opportunity to experiment if the mood takes...
Although I'd imagine it would be uncomfortable returning any favours received...
"
@xyzygy said:
" @sjhujh said:"Hey, some guys don't mind not receiving sometimes, you know, they might be just in it for the fun of getting you off, to help you with your little "experiment" :p "Well I'm moving to Brighton (gay capital of England for those who don't know) for Uni so I could take the opportunity to experiment if the mood takes...
Although I'd imagine it would be uncomfortable returning any favours received...
"
I am a scientist after all so experimentation is in a my nature... Ha!
Your first and second lines are hilariously contradictory, and are completely explained by your forth." @Ragdrazi said:
Explain how you know all this. Are you a girl? Besides, you act you know every single girl in the world is like this and you know it. People are different." Why do fit girls turn you into a fool? Because you dislike yourself on a fundamental level, and because of that dislike, you fear her rejection of you. Here's a trick. Don't tell a girl you're doing this, but it's good to do. Imagine she's completely comfortable with you. Imagine you could just ask her to dance if you wanted to. When you approach a woman as a jabbering moron, at no place outside of the movies do women think "Oh! He's attracted to me." Instead, they think "Oh! He's a jabbering moron." But the thing about girls is that they want to feel like they inspire in you emotions that big. So, you see, it's all in what you do with it. A woman wants to feel like she is so lovely that you simply cannot help yourself but ask her to dance. So what you need to do is channel that jibbering energy into a sort of polite controlled fowardwardness. I'm not talking about aggressiveness. There's a difference between that and this. But you should know that aggressive men really do very often get what they want out of women, because women are as confused about men as men are about women. Women think they've inspired a huge amount of emotion in an aggressive man. Really she's just inspired something huge to happen in his pants. With women, emotions and sex are so bound up together, they have no idea how we as men operate. The idea that emotions and sex can be different entities is just not where women are based. But see, that's the thing. A person like you is the sort of person a woman is looking for but has no idea how to find. And you know why she can't find you? Because you're too busy throwing her drinks on the ground, dumbass. Stop being, a dumbass, dumbass. Be polite, but be forward. Give yourself permission. I guarantee you will get what you want. "
Most girls like assholes though. That's the bottom line.
I really wish bold would turn off when I want it to.
Anyway, I'm not a jabbering wreck, just quiet. I usually don't say anything until "she" says something (or makes a gesture) to me first. "
It's hard to explain to you how I know all this is true. I've just seen it all happen from both sides.
Actually, I think its a little more Swingers." @Ragdrazi said:
Ladies and Gentlemen, I present to you, Hitch! "" Why do fit girls turn you into a fool? Because you dislike yourself on a fundamental level, and because of that dislike, you fear her rejection of you. Here's a trick. Don't tell a girl you're doing this, but it's good to do. Imagine she's completely comfortable with you. Imagine you could just ask her to dance if you wanted to. When you approach a woman as a jabbering moron, at no place outside of the movies do women think "Oh! He's attracted to me." Instead, they think "Oh! He's a jabbering moron." But the thing about girls is that they want to feel like they inspire in you emotions that big. So, you see, it's all in what you do with it. A woman wants to feel like she is so lovely that you simply cannot help yourself but ask her to dance. So what you need to do is channel that jibbering energy into a sort of polite controlled fowardwardness. I'm not talking about aggressiveness. There's a difference between that and this. But you should know that aggressive men really do very often get what they want out of women, because women are as confused about men as men are about women. Women think they've inspired a huge amount of emotion in an aggressive man. Really she's just inspired something huge to happen in his pants. With women, emotions and sex are so bound up together, they have no idea how we as men operate. The idea that emotions and sex can be different entities is just not where women are based. But see, that's the thing. A person like you is the sort of person a woman is looking for but has no idea how to find. And you know why she can't find you? Because you're too busy throwing her drinks on the ground, dumbass. Stop being, a dumbass, dumbass. Be polite, but be forward. Give yourself permission. I guarantee you will get what you want. "
@sjhujh:
If you don't dislike yourself on a fundamental level what's stopping you from walking up to her and saying hi. If you think you're the shit, what's stopping you from getting what you want.
To go with the Swingers thing, you're a bear. You have these teeth and claws. Fucking kill the bunny. Do it or some dickwad's going to be there to do it for you. Do you want the dickwad to do it for you?
Hopefully people have seen this movie so that reference make sense.
"And the award for most akward post on Giant Bomb goes too......Well I'm moving to Brighton (gay capital of England for those who don't know) for Uni so I could take the opportunity to experiment if the mood takes...
Although I'd imagine it would be uncomfortable returning any favours received...
"
A week > a night . But if she is the girl of your dreams she may be the girl of the dreams of someone else, the odds are many have probably found her first, it turns out to be a real problem when it was 7 years ago. You can keep on trying, but it isn't wise to mess up with Murphy's law, and you don't want things to get worse." Just wait till you find the girl of your dreams and after a night of everything going your way, it turns out she has a boyfriend. Makes being a fool feel great. "
So here is the trick for the op, when you see a "fit" girl, think that she probably has one or two boyfriends (I've actually met girls who had 2 boyfriends), no chances = no pressure, she's a man with a big mustache for you (if you haven't gone gay or bi yet). The advices from jakob187 and Ragdrazi are good too, depending of your objective, a night or a life.
I don't know. I've found my approach as worked well when I was getting my one night stands, too. Politely forward. And sometimes... just sometimes, a little impolitely forward.The advices from jakob187 and Ragdrazi are good too, depending of your objective, a night or a life. "
@ahriman22 said:
It's British slang meaning "hot"." What does "ft" mean? As in... Bulging muscles and monstrous thighs? Or does it mean flat stomach toned legs and such? Be specific... "
" It's because people who are in shape are rare now-a-days. In ancient Greece it used to be the other way around. The chubbier girls where deemed hot and the thin ones, not so much. "True, very true. Theres a lot more fat people these days. Pretty soon people will be made fun of for being in shape
corrected" @Trylks said:
I don't know. I've found my approach as worked well when I was getting my one night stands, too. Politely forward. And sometimes... just sometimes, a little impolitely forward.The advices from jakob187 and Ragdrazi are good too, depending of your objective, a night or a life. "
@ahriman22
said:It's chav slang meaning "hot". "" What does "ft" mean? As in... Bulging muscles and monstrous thighs? Or does it mean flat stomach toned legs and such? Be specific... "
Chav." @Ragdrazi said:
corrected "" @Trylks said:
I don't know. I've found my approach as worked well when I was getting my one night stands, too. Politely forward. And sometimes... just sometimes, a little impolitely forward.The advices from jakob187 and Ragdrazi are good too, depending of your objective, a night or a life. "
@ahriman22
said:It's chav slang meaning "hot". "" What does "ft" mean? As in... Bulging muscles and monstrous thighs? Or does it mean flat stomach toned legs and such? Be specific... "
Ok then. Forgive me, I'm just an American.
Lot of British people on here.
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