@ItBeStefYo: How can you say you hate your mom because she asked you to do the washing up? You say you have a problem with authority and you go on about how hard you work on assignments and essays... boo-fucking-hoo. I''ve been caring for my mom since my dad died when I was 15 after she nearly died of cancer when I was 8. I help her around the house, I do the shopping, pay a chunk of the bills, phone people for her (she had cancer in her mouth and had two-thirds of her tongue removed which has greatly affected her speech), I take time off work to look after her when she's ill, I took three weeks off last year unpaid to look after her when she broke her hip after a fall - but you know what? She's my mom. She gave birth to me, she's looked after me, she's been there when no-one else has - why the hell wouldn't I look after her?
And for the record, I've been at university, and given how much time I've spent looking after my mom, my grades have suffered and I'm now having to work out if I should drop out of my final year for now to look after her more - leaving me with a fuckton of debt and no degree, but it's worth it knowing I'm looking after my mom.
I've done this all on my own, because my dad's dead and my mom needs me, and spiteful, petulant people like you do my head in. At least your mom has the strength to do things herself, and has the money to pay for her ungrateful kid's university fees. At least you have the opportunity to go and live with your dad. At least you can go to university guilt-free, knowing your mom is okay at home without you.
You want advice? Stop acting like a child, do the fucking washing up, try cooking your own meals and treating your mom like the woman who gave you life instead of a skivvy.
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