" @FunExplosions said:^" Lol, I'm asking this on a video game website. But I know were not a bunch of drooling nerds like the rest of the world makes us out, so I'll give it a shot. Here's the story. Went to a party, met up with an old friend that I had wanted to ask out for a long-ass time. Never got the chance for multiple reasons. About an hour later, she leaves, then this other girl I kinda knew is all over me. Needless to say I was drunk and I scheduled two dates... kinda on purpose. I of course feel like I should just date one of 'em... but at the same time... I don't. I don't know, any tips? Similar stories? Hopefully I won't be branded as a douche bag after this post. "how would you feel if the girl you were dating was secretly dating another dude on the side. Stop being a douche and making it harder for women to trust honest guys like us. "
Dating Two Girls at Once, Any Tips?
" Be careful or it might end up like the ending of this game. "True, but they would not chop his head off. Pick one before you regret it.
The fact that you're interested in two women simultaneously would indicate that what you're interested in has got nothing to do with either of them as people. I encourage you to re-evaluate what it is you value in your companions and whether or not either of these females possess the traits you actually desire, and whether or not you possess any traits that are actually desirable, and then work on self-improvement.
" The fact that you're interested in two women simultaneously would indicate that what you're interested in has got nothing to do with either of them as people. I encourage you to re-evaluate what it is you value in your companions and whether or not either of these females possess the traits you actually desire, and whether or not you possess any traits that are actually desirable, and then work on self-improvement. "Second that
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty women your wife
Go for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
Don't let your friends tell you you have no taste
go ahead and marry anyway
Her face is ugly her eyes don't match
take it from me shes a better catch
You are allowed to date multiple people. That is what "dating" is. When you move past dating, then you get in trouble for going out with other girls. You are turning a "date" into some sort of contract, which it isn't. A date is "you turn me on + hey want to get to know each other". After a couple months of dating, or even weeks, you could discuss not "seeing" other people - which would mean not romantically seeing other people, but you could still go out on a casual date!" Lol, I'm asking this on a video game website. But I know were not a bunch of drooling nerds like the rest of the world makes us out, so I'll give it a shot. Here's the story. Went to a party, met up with an old friend that I had wanted to ask out for a long-ass time. Never got the chance for multiple reasons. About an hour later, she leaves, then this other girl I kinda knew is all over me. Needless to say I was drunk and I scheduled two dates... kinda on purpose. I of course feel like I should just date one of 'em... but at the same time... I don't. I don't know, any tips? Similar stories? Hopefully I won't be branded as a douche bag after this post. "
This of course assumes you want to get to know these people, and really see how compatible/interested you are.
If you just want to get laid, double vision is baaaaaaaad. Go with the one thats all over you. But you don't sound like such a dog.
I know a couple of people that were involved in a polyamorous relationship for a while. For those that don't know what it means, polyamory is essentially openly dating and having sexual relationships with more than one person at a time. I won't share any details about the end result, but let's just say that the concept collapsed in a fireball and left a lot of people with hurt feelings.
So really, dating two girls at once? My advice is don't do it.
Girls are way more sensative than guys think and i'm a girl so i think i know it, i suggest you stop right now before you worsen it for the two girls and choose one only, think about it properly and an answer of 'i like both' isn't a real answer and i do have to say douche is the main word im thinking right now about you. this is totally unfair on them
" Going on a date with two separate girls is fine, dating two different girls is not. My advice would be to pick one soon before you end up with neither. "This!
" Yes. Do everything you can to arrange a threesome. "That@Akeldama said:
" @FunExplosions said:good point." Lol, I'm asking this on a video game website. But I know were not a bunch of drooling nerds like the rest of the world makes us out, so I'll give it a shot. Here's the story. Went to a party, met up with an old friend that I had wanted to ask out for a long-ass time. Never got the chance for multiple reasons. About an hour later, she leaves, then this other girl I kinda knew is all over me. Needless to say I was drunk and I scheduled two dates... kinda on purpose. I of course feel like I should just date one of 'em... but at the same time... I don't. I don't know, any tips? Similar stories? Hopefully I won't be branded as a douche bag after this post. "how would you feel if the girl you were dating was secretly dating another dude on the side. Stop being a douche and making it harder for women to trust honest guys like us. "
" @FunExplosions said:Hopefully I won't be branded as a douche bag after this post. "Too late. "
" My advice would be to sit them side by side on a bench, stand behind them, and bang their heads together as hard as you possibly can. If their heads make a sound like two empty coconuts banging together, they are safe to date at the same time. "Fuck, how do you do it? I have never not laughed at a post of yours; you should be here more often and bring this site some much-needed humor. And yes, this is the idea I support.
It appears to me a lot of people on Giant Bomb have no clue what dating is actually like. What a shocker.
OP has made it clear...
He doesn't intend to "play" anybody.
He hasn't been on a date with either girl.
He's not cheating on anybody.
You can't cheat on a girl that's not your girlfriend and there's nothing douchey about going on two different FIRST dates, even on the same night.
Your thread is misleading, you simply have 2 dates. Nothing is serious yet, so it shouldn't matter to any of the involved parties. Just cause you are on a date doesn't mean you are a. going to fall in love b. get laid or c. get stabbed in the face with a fork for seeing another girl despite you just meeting this other girl at the same party. And lastly this post comes more off as an e-peen thread stating you got 2 dates with potentially unattractive girls you met at a party while intoxicated.
" My advice would be to sit them side by side on a bench, stand behind them, and bang their heads together as hard as you possibly can. If their heads make a sound like two empty coconuts banging together, they are safe to date at the same time. "I love this guy hahahahaha.
OP, don't do it, choose only one, being played like that is horrible, happened to a friend of mine, she got really really depressed.
I dont believe that you would like to have the same thing done to you. I think you know what you should do. Dont be one of those people.
alright, to get through this you need to stick to some rules
1) They should not know each other or even know the other exists in any form. Keep that from happening.
2) Come up with plausabile lies if you need to that are not open for discovery, like dont say you will be going out of town and you go to the mall and one of them is there. Try to go to places with the other girl where the other one would not be likely to be.
3) Do not hand any bitch your pager
4) Watch your spending, this is more for you than anything
5) Dont let your friends know what is going on, this is another way things could get spilled
6) Dont have sex with both on the same day. One at a time son.
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